Are there any men on this site that are in a happy relationship and in love who do not feel the need to look at other women? or is it really true that ALL Men can't help themselves?
2006-12-21 07:33:12 · 24 answers · asked by tibbi h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm extremely happy with my woman, and for the first time in my life don't feel the need to look elsewhere.
I wasn't at all happy with the last one, so I did look elsewhere.
The painful truth in a nutshell: if your man is looking elsewhere, you're wrong for him and he's wrong for you. Neither of you should waste any more time on it, and you'll both get over it sooner than you think.
2006-12-21 07:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by jamesducker 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
As a man and a student of human biology I can tell you this with the utmost sincerity. There are three types of men that do not look at other women - dead, blind, and gay - and from what I'm told the gay ones might look to see if the purse matches the shoes but thats not the same thing. Looking at other women is BIOLOGICAL - if you didn't want us to look at other women we would be driving over them when they crossed the street. It isn't the fact that a man is looking that should bother you because that is normal and means he is a heterosexual (unless its the purse and shoes thing), it should only bother you if it goes to the point where he is no longer just looking but TOUCHING the other woman - then you have a problem. Stop asking men not to be men as it will never work. If I see somebody that looks "hot" on the street I will look, but I will go home with, sleep with, and stay with MY sweetie. Smart men value loyalty, possibly above all else, in a relationship... at least this one does.
2006-12-21 15:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by Paul H 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I am in a very happy marriage and I don't feel like I need to look at other women, but I do it anyway just for the fun of it. Besides, if I don't look at a hot woman, my wife will point her out to me anyway, so in a way I am required to do it even if I don't want to. HEY, I gotta keep my wife happy, right?
Anyway, why do women act like it is such a crime to look at an attractive woman? If your guy looks at and appreciates beautiful women, and he is still with you, that means he thinks of all the beautiful women in the world, you are the best.
Also, remember how much it irritates you when your man looks a a woman the next time you check out some guy in the mall, or watch a Brad Pitt movie and start thinking how FINE he is. You are no different.
2006-12-21 15:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by PDH 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Everyone looks. Anyone who denies that is a liar. It's human nature.
A bit of light flirting is ok in my book. I fully expect that my partner does that while she is out with the girls. We've been together 8 years so it is only natural to "fancy a bit on the side" in your mind. The difference comes when you make physical contact with another person. That is wrong. Whether it is with your face, or worse, your other bits.
If you loved and respected the person you were with you wouldn't mess about with anyone else.
Like I have always said, keeping one woman happy is hard enough.. trying to keep two happy at once must be a living hell. She understands how I think and so is reassured that I wouldn't mess about!
2006-12-21 15:48:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am in a stable happy marriage and have been for a lot of years. I still do look at women but have not and would not be tempted to do any more than look. I may be short sighted, but don't see the problem in looking at people. Most women seem to enjoy seeing a good looking male.
2006-12-21 15:40:51 · answer #5 · answered by xrv43xjs 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am in a happy relationship and i do not feel the need to look at other women. No, men can help themselves. We choose to look and if he is doing it while he is with you there is something wrong.
2006-12-21 15:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
From past expiriences, even the most faithful men still take their glances. It's not necessarily a bad thing, but men will be men. I cannot think of ONE married man who wouldn't take a second look at some of those beautiful women out there.
2006-12-21 15:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Ive been in a relationship 4 about 5 years now , with 2 children and a dog . Im male and definately dont feel the need to look at other women. We aint all b*stards , just most of us . lol . merry xmas .
2006-12-21 15:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by warpig 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dude.... even if a man looks at another woman does not make him unfaithful.... It sounds like your one of those paranoid, non trusting girls who give grief to blokes and in turn make them want to leave you. Its natural to look around as long as you dont touch, its called life, get used to it or all you will do is pi*ss men off
2006-12-21 15:38:59 · answer #9 · answered by 2 good 2 miss 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but any man that says he doesn't 'appreciate' a beautiful woman thats not his partner, just because he's in a relationship (happy or otherwise), is lying. Unfortunately our hormones do things that won't allow us to make decisions based on relationships its pure biology.
2006-12-21 15:41:36 · answer #10 · answered by Hot British Guy 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋