hes really shy and i've never actaully taled to him, but i know hes noticed me. hes a sophmore and i'm a freshman so i dont have any classes with him, but i see him a lot in the hallways and at church. hes super shy and i'm worried about what to say to him. help! how do i start a conversation with him. serious answers please!
2006-12-21 07:27:41 · 9 answers · asked by rachel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow! i'm a freshy and i like this guy who's a sophmore! anywho....just start by saying hi when u pass by him after a while walk by him and say "hi" and his name* after a while say "hi, how are ya" and maybe u could start a conversation. at church is a good place to talk too, i just never can get to talk to him at church cuz he's with other guys so just catch him when he's alone!! good luck girl!!!
2006-12-21 07:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by azuzu92 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any friends that know any of his friends? This would be a very good intro. Ask anyone you know if they know or associate with this guy. Then go up with them when they chat and introduce yourself.
Does he participate in any activities at school or church? Pay attention and participate also.
The last ditch effort would be to walk past him, bump him alittle bit, and touch his shoulder, "Excuse me." Do a fast scan of something you can make a good comment about, then smile and be on your way. If he likes you, this will be a good way for him to walk over and start talking to you the next time he sees you. If you see him looking at you like he wants to talk to you, wave and call him over.
At this point, if you made these moves and he doesn't do anything about it, it isn't because he's shy. Something else is keeping him away that's beyond your control.
Good luck!
2006-12-21 15:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by dkuddle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you see him, say hi and I've seen you at church, how long have you been attending here ? you need to ask open ended questions that will require a conversation... Do you even know his name ? If not that would be a good place to start... A simple introduction
2006-12-21 15:43:23 · answer #3 · answered by Honey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is shy, u need to start it first. if u r really worried, just relax and say Hi! if he's a good person, he'll say hi back. you guys could then talk about your church, or things going on in ur school. he'll appreciate it if u have the guts to talk to him first. if you just start a simple conversation, it could turn into a whole lot more! just give it a go, and hope for the best! good luck!
2006-12-21 15:34:45 · answer #4 · answered by Ninja Jr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you can start by saying hi. have a real converstoin, try to get to know him better and make him know u and after this things will start to flow..
2006-12-21 15:31:18 · answer #5 · answered by Boss 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey me 2! you know what...you should just be yourself and have the guts to say hi to him and start flirting with him...i know how you feel...i also having the same situation at my school w/ this boy at my school...don't worry because if you talk to him, he might be more interested in you.
2006-12-21 15:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by sexychocolate91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just approach him and start asking questions about mutual friends, if he knows so and so, if he likes so and so, I think this guy just needs some encouragement.
2006-12-21 15:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by thevillageidiotxxxxx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say hows it going or hi. good luck and happy holidays
2006-12-21 15:34:49 · answer #8 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what you doin this weekend? WOW that was so easy!
2006-12-21 15:30:32 · answer #9 · answered by hasanyoneseenmyshoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋