There is this man I've never met, but he is a friend of a friend and I talk to him on myspace. He's nice and cute and my friend speaks well of him and I trust my friend's opinion.
So, after flirting with each other in several messages, he recently sent me a message saying he was coming to my city in a few weeks.
Well, I told him if he wanted a tour of the city let me know, and I'd hook him up.
I mean, I trust him since he knows my friend.
Anyway, He wrote back ,
'Right on girl, I might take you up on that tour."
That's all he wrote, nothing else.
He never wrote, I'll let you know when I'll be there or anything.
Just, 'I might take you up on that tour.'
Was he just blowing me off?
I do not want to email back and say anything else and look stupid.
Remember he was flirting with me so, he seemed interested.
Now..I'm not so sure.
What you say?
2006-12-21 07:23:53 · 3 answers · asked by *Lovely* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HE KNOWS WHAT I LOOK LIKE WE ARE COMMUNICATING THROUGH MYSPACE...HE SEES THE PICS IN MY PROFILE.
He's already said things like, "tell me your not breaking hearts left and right."
He thinks I'm attractive, for sure.
2006-12-21 07:36:24 · update #1
Um no, you're just paranoid. That wasnt a brush off in any sense of the word, so just go on with it already.
2006-12-21 07:28:08 · answer #1 · answered by amarie5137 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're reading way too much into one little sentence.
Would you break off a marriage because your husband suddenly said "ok talk to you later honey bye" and hung up? Does that mean he doesn't love you anymore? No!
Don't be so ego-centric. Not everything is about you. In fact, surprisingly little is about you. Most likely he didn't have time to churn out a proper e-mail. If he doesn't call you at all and then gives you a lame excuse when he gets back to town, THEN you might have something. For now, just sit back and wait.
2006-12-21 07:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by John C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He either doesn't want to seem to eager and will contact you when he gets to your town or he wants to leave his options open. If he makes plans with you now and then changes his mind he is already bound to it. Just see what happens when he comes to town. Dont e-mail him back. And remember, he's probably worried about how you look since he probably has never seen a pic of you before.
2006-12-21 07:31:47 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋