So I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. For the first year 1/2 we didn't have any worries. Now we are going thru one thing after another. Money is very tight with him right now, because he is trying to pay his bills and get his car fixed. The only problem is that he works in construction and there will be 2 or 3 days were he doesnt work. I get so frustrated with him about his job, but he trying to get out of it. He will spend hours online applying for jobs and calling people, but he hasn't had any luck. Now his car is getting fix and he is insurnce is due. I have already paied one of his bills and I want to help him out buy paying his car insurnce. Plus he is dieing to go back to college and get a degree but he doesn't know how he can make it witht he job he has now. Does anyone have any tips for my man, he wants to go on with his life but he doesn't have any luck and doesn't know where to start. Plus am I wrong for helping him out??
2006-12-21 07:10:50 · 6 answers · asked by jennisea04 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your not wrong for helping him out, and he's trying really hard to make a better life for the both of you. Tell him he could try for a school loan, to pay for his education those have very low intrest and some you don't even have to pay back till a couple years after he graduates and they are for everybody who is a student. Has he tried going out and walking into businesses to apply for jobs sometimes those have better luck.
2006-12-21 07:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by little sister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you love him, and he is really trying then there is nothing wrong with you helping him. In fact, it sounds as thought he could use a little help. Assuming that these problems are luck, and not related to work ethic or other issues. First you should step back and look at the situation. Make sure your opinion isn't swayed because of your feelings for him. After that, if he is really trying, I would help him out. Everyone needs some help sometimes.
2006-12-21 07:17:31 · answer #2 · answered by kingpenguin_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a good guy right there - it sounds like he is really busting his *** for both of you.
Don't most schools offer night classes? Seems like the problem right now is making sure school and work schedules don't conflict, right?
2006-12-21 07:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by John C 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are doing right by standing by him and supporting him while he is down. I think you should help him out as long as he is trying to get on his feet, and it sounds like he is.
2006-12-21 07:17:35 · answer #4 · answered by Just Ask 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs a break to think things through ans see all the things he wants to do in his life just take him for a couple of days and let him relax a bit
2006-12-21 07:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by kayia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, you shouldn't be helping out financially, sounds like he needs a sugar mommy
2006-12-21 07:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋