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my bf and i just had sex like 5 mins ago right b4 he had to go home, im wanting to get birth control because i dont want to get pregnant. im only 13 and dont want my mom to find out, is there a way for me to get birth control with out my mom finding out? please help and give any other sugestions. please

2006-12-21 07:04:17 · 21 answers · asked by Rose U 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

21 answers

just talk to ur mom she will understand

2006-12-21 08:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0 0

There should be a local place like family planning that will put you on some pills and it would be confidential. I would start by calling family planning or whatever you have similar close by and they can point you in the direction.
If you cant get pills for free they will give you condoms. You shouldn't have an issue with getting the pills. But most places only give you a 3 months supply at a time. They will also give you a pap smear. For this when the results come in they like to either call or mail the results to you so you have to decide how to deal with that part. Also at 13 your going to have to find someone to take you there and wait the hour or more that it will take.

2006-12-21 15:10:58 · answer #2 · answered by angelmwilson 5 · 1 1

In most states you have to be 16 in the eyes of Physicans. Even Planned parenthood. Unles your mother authorizes concent for a perscription. USE CONDOMS and at 13 do you really think its a good idea to be sexually active? There are sooooo many diseases out there that you do not even know about. Educate yourself that is the best prevention. Do not think that you are invincible. No one is. AIDS affects more people than you think. The possibility of a pregnancy while your body is still developing could inhibit your chances of getting pregnant later in life. It's not cool to be a mother at 13. There goes your childhood, no more parties, no more fun and what are the chances of the guy sticking around if you do?? Take care of yourself and be smart about your decision and remember... Nothing is 100% effective. But if you're gonna do it. USE CONDOMS!!!!!!

2006-12-21 15:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by useless_knowledge 3 · 1 0

This is really something you should have done before having sex. I hope you at least used a condom. When you use no form of birth control, the chances of you getting pregnant are very high and I'm sure you don't want that. My advice is to stop having sex until you get some form of birth control.

You can go to Planned Parenthood and they will give you everything you need. Your visits there are confidential so your parents will not know about your appointments.

2006-12-21 15:09:24 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 3 · 1 1

Don't be stupid!!!!! You are too young. Things happen all the time and it can happen to you. Take everyone's advice and don't give yourself to just anyone. Do you really think you're gonna spend your life with this BOY. If you are gonna do it anyway, talk to your mom. She is gonna be mad, but she'd appreciate your openess and honesty. It's a much better way for her to find out than you suddenly coming up pregnant or with an STD. Or what if ur caught in the act. Honesty is always the best policy.

2006-12-21 15:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I'm gonna make it short 'n' sweet = you want birth control----you go to planned parenthood.
I'ts rather creepy there...you could always get it on e bay...no kidding..but make sure you get the package before your mom does!
you can also get it from your local pharmacy..but you need an adult to get it..you could always hire a drifter to buy it for you...or you can stop having sex!
your only 13---your bf should know that.
I 'm 12 and I really think 13 is too young.
believe me...I am NO OLDIE but seriously. C'mon
-best wishes,
lily

2006-12-21 15:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by GROOVY LILY 3 · 1 0

Since you've already had sex, you should go to your pharmicist and ask for "the morning after pill." It's not a prescription, but you do have to ask for it. AND, you really should talk to your mom. She should be aware of what's going on with you whether she likes it or not. If that's just not possible, you could go to a free clinic if there's one near you. That would mean you'll have to have someone take you. You could ask your mother to take you to your regular doctor for a check up. (That's what I did, but I was 17!) - Anyway, tell your doctor what you need and why - actually DISCUSS it with him/her so he/she will know what kind of birth control is best for you. Take it from there.

2006-12-21 15:10:16 · answer #7 · answered by teacherhelper 6 · 1 0

For one you are 13 what does a 13 year old have any business have sex in the first place. I would just tell your parents because one way or another they will find out trust me. They will be more pissed that you could tell them and you could be proving yourself somewhat responsible by telling them that you are at least willing to go on the pill. If I had a teenage girl and she wanted to go on the pill I would gladly take her to get on it but she would still get her butt chewed on big time for having sex. My best advice is stop having sex and enjoy your childhood while you still have it to enjoy.

2006-12-21 15:15:36 · answer #8 · answered by lovemybabies04 2 · 1 0

Use condoms and go to Planned Parenthood for birth control. It's normally free, too.

Keep in mind that when you have sex, nothing is safe. The condom could break, birth control doesn't ALWAYS work. A few of my friends have had babies while on the pill.

2006-12-21 15:07:35 · answer #9 · answered by omgrachie 2 · 1 1

My suggestion is not to do that again until you grow up. You are way too young to be having sex, but you are not to young to get pregnant. I think you need to talk to your mom. You have to see a doctor to get on birth control pills. I hope that you will reconsider and not have sex again, but if you do make sure your boyfriend uses a condom and he needs to put it on before he enters you. He can buy condoms at any drug store. Please wait before becoming sexually active. You are still a kid, enjoy your childhood while it lasts.

2006-12-21 15:08:50 · answer #10 · answered by kat 7 · 1 0

I think that a discussion with your mother would be best. I know you don't want her to know, because you are afraid...that should tell you something. If you are afraid, you are still a kid, and sex is an adult responsibility. If you truly are mature enough to handle sex, you can bring it up with your mom.
If you think you are grown, and ready for grown up responsibility, tell your mom about your relationship, and about your need for birth control. Good Luck...

2006-12-21 15:16:56 · answer #11 · answered by Nikki 6 · 0 0

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