& be happy about it
(i'm talking about romance, please leave self-love, work, hobbies & friends out of this, these are all seprate issues and pleasures)
thanx
2006-12-21 07:00:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Who says they won't? Who says they haven't already and you didn't notice?
Just be "out there" and confident. That is all men are looking for.
2006-12-21 07:02:42 · answer #1 · answered by Sir J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, its like this. Sometimes "great love" is right under your nose. Are your standards too high? Are your ideals too high? Are you expecting someone to come sweep you off of your feet? Unfortunately, for most of us, love doesn't fall from the sky "fallen angel" like. Most of us have to date enough people to figure out what we want, get over our insecurities, and gain enough pride in ourselves to look at the object of our desire and say "I deserve you." and really believe it. Would you date you if you were the perfect person you'd want? If not, perhaps thats where you should begin. It has a lot to do with confidence...because that happens to be really sexy.
2006-12-21 07:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by Destiny 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that what you really must do is just to be content with singleness. Be happy with what God has blessed you with, and it will put your singleness into perspective. In order to be happy, you must be satisfied, not striving to gain something else that you don't have, otherwise, you'll never be happy: first you get that special someone, then you'll want children, then you'll want a nicer home, then you'll want a nicer car, then you'll want a higher paying job; and on and on it goes, see it won't ever be enough?!
2006-12-21 07:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by icebuilderjon 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason for you to think that will not happen for you. I think when we give up on that, it's very sad. I was talking with an 83 year old man last night who has been dating a woman for three years and been engaged to her for a year. I asked him what he's waiting for. He said he's not sure she's the one. Ha! Ha! What a lively sparkle he has in his eyes! You don't want to give up on hoping for it. Live it up.
2006-12-21 07:03:40 · answer #4 · answered by Rvn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you keep waiting for a fantasy prince he will never come. If you date different people and pick out the one you like the most. He might be your great love one day.
2006-12-21 07:03:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was 31 before I met the love of my life. she didn't just walk into my apt., either. I had to go find her. Don't give up and don't worry about having to kiss a few frogs.
2006-12-21 07:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by Schmorgen 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
By definition, the 'great love' will come.. else it is nothing but a fiction
Can you accept the 'great love' that one receives or encounters?
Perhaps, perhaps not... say you are eighty years old someday, you look over the years & see nothing but morons... well, which of these morons was the nicest...? He/she is your 'great love'...
Next, you wonder... did I enjoy my 'great love'?
I think you will see my point...
2006-12-21 08:03:31 · answer #7 · answered by K V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing you have to do is realize that life is NOT a romance novel. The sooner you stop idealizing it, the sooner you will find someone.
2006-12-21 07:02:20 · answer #8 · answered by CrankyYankee 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Once you acept that, you live as though you are in love. When people see you are in love, romance finds you.
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2006-12-21 07:05:17 · answer #9 · answered by twowords 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think about it. If it happens it happens, if not there is nothing that you have done to have prevented it from happening. Love will usually find you when you stop looking.
2006-12-21 07:04:26 · answer #10 · answered by kerfitz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋