I've been hanging out more with this girl and we've both been interested for about 5 weeks. Only recently though (2 weeks ago) we had a real real date that went well. Then a second one the other day. I haven't kissed her yet aside from on the cheek. We are now apart for winter break for a while. Anyway if we haven't kissed yet is that the end? lol I plan on trying to keep the interest level there (send her flowers randomly over break once) and talk to her. Thanks.
2006-12-21 06:56:51 · 23 answers · asked by Ravensman04 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm . . . you shouldn't send flowers over the break. Just kinda keep in touch. It's too soon for flowers. Although the girls here probably think they would enjoy it, all it will do is make her lose respect for you. I think it's OK that you kissed her on the cheek though. Aim for the lips next time, just a peck. See how she reacts -- it might tell you something about how interested she is. Good luck!
2006-12-21 07:03:03 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All relationships are the different. If you don't end up kissing her after a month than that is okay. It just may mean you haven't found the right moment to do it yet. There is no time restriction. Sending her flowers is a great idea! Being romantic and doing sweet things for her will only increase the likeliness of a kiss (on the lips) in the near future.
2006-12-21 07:10:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, first off, forget the flower idea, That makes you look like you're needy and a stalker. Don't try to contact her, not ONCE over break. Make her wonder about you (if she is really interested, this distance will help to peak her curiousity). Next, have you even tried to kiss her yet? If not, then what are you waiting for? Just go for it, don't worry. Heres why, if she turns away, she wasn't interested in you that way anyway. 99% of the time, if she likes you in a romantic way as well, she will kiss you back. This doesn't mean to go launch the USS Tongue down her throat canal (unless she does it first, tongueing is never a good idea for a first kiss unless you think she's a slut). People are never afraid of kissing one another, they are afraid of rejection, so, if you think she likes you too (and she does) she will definitely kiss back. Remember though, you should NEVER NEVER NEVER ask a girl if you can kiss them. If man want kiss, man take kiss. It is boy who ask for kiss, and boy will be boy forever, this is word of Chief. Now..go young warrior..become man!!..thats what I have to say, remember it..
2006-12-21 07:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by Blind Sighted 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-11 13:46:17 · answer #4 · answered by slagle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. My husband was 20 when we started dating, he took 6 weeks of dating before he kissed me at all. I actually had to ask him to kiss me. We had been on at least 20 dates by then! He is the best though, we are married now and expecting our first child. The last 6 years have been wonderful!
2006-12-21 07:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Theres no shame in going slow. Sometimes shes might be nervous too. When both YOU and HER feel ready, then you guys can step up in your relationship. You sound like a really sweet and concerned guy, and I know that your girlfriend appreciates that! Whenever you feel ready or so, you can take her by surprise. Make the moment special. Take her to her favourite place to eat and catch a movie! Make sure to make plans with her over your break!
2006-12-21 07:01:00 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy Muskrat<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it is not weird at all. kissintg sometimes makes yoou feel closer to a person but actually your relationship can be just as fulfilling as when you do not kiss for a while. i know because i have been in many relationships and never kissed.
2006-12-21 07:00:36 · answer #7 · answered by missdessie06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think it's bad. This is really going to depend on her. If she's looking to go a little faster but she's not the aggressive type either then she'll look elsewhere. Don't do anything you aren't comfortable with. If it's meant to be, it will happen.
2006-12-21 07:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by CPT Jack 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well why didn't you kiss her? She's obviously waiting for you to make the first move!! She's probably wondering if you're even interested in her.
2006-12-21 06:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by Geoff S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes it just isnt enough somegirls like to be kissed and so when she gets back, just call and ask to see her. and tell her you missed her, flowers in hand and a kiss. but call every night to say goodnight and every morning to say goodmorning. things can happen over breaks.
2006-12-21 07:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by harasgirl2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋