Was I too mean??

Question

Was I too mean?? Read the given situation.(in add'l details)

Me and this guy have been going out for a while. He was holding me in his arms by his pool(he has an indoor pool) and his friend was telling him to choose me or him. My b/f chose his friend and then his friend goes "bro's b4 ho's". I was so mad that I walked up to my b/f and told him to have fun with his bros. I told him not to call, e-mail, IM, or talk to me, b/c I was 100% serious.
He ran behind my porsche for about an hour before he finally quit. He was a good b/f. Should I give him a second chance?? Afterall, It is the holiday season.

I know his friend was there before me. He has called to say he is sorry. Should I forgive and forget??

I don't care about the whole "ho" thing because my friends and I call eachother bitches and hos sometimes when we see eachother in the hall.

Why is it you ALWAYS have to choose your friends over a girl?? Why is it a cop-out to like both or want to be with her??

Answer 1

Yea... Gezzz.. You are kind of a ***** for that..

Don't you think ...

Answer 2

no u werent mean. his friend never should have put him in that position. no true male friend would try 2 come between a guy n a girl doing what comes naturaly. his friend could get his own girl friend n stop being the 3rd wheel n see how he'd like his friendship was dubted just coz he's in love. if u 4give ur bfriend i hope he now understands the women in a mans life always comes first 2 him n his friend should respect this n apply it 2 his relationships if he get over his boy bonds long enough 2 find a girlfriend.

Answer 3

Well that all depends on if you really think that he cares about you.. Most men have to be a real prick infront of there friends just to show them that there the ones with the pants... Exspecaily when the friend is single and has no idea what a real relationship is if I was you i would give him a second chance..
GOOD LUCK!!!

Answer 4

No, you shouldn't forgive him. He just called you a "ho" in front of all his friends and then, he chose them over you. That isn't a good boyfriend, even as a joke, he is still a butthead. If you forgive him, it will only lead to more degrading acts by him, so you should leave it how you said it, and teach him a lesson.

Answer 5

Yea shore an indoor pool and a Porsche in the trailer park RIGHT

Answer 6

You need to at least teach him a lesson. Don't give in too easy, but if he really was a good boyfriend you can probably get back together and he'll know not to disrespect you like that again.

Answer 7

Maybe forget, but forgive? Honey, he dissed you in front of his friend! And then his friend disrepected you, too, while he stood there. Find another man who is willing to be more respectful and kind to you. This one will never grow up.

Answer 8

i think that you should give him a second chance, because he seems intrested in you and...guys care about their firends...but not as much as they care about the woman that he loves...also, his friend was probably joking about what he said...but the part that you said he chose his friend instead of you kind of just tells me that he just wants to hang with is friend and have a little fun...

Answer 9

No, I would have done the same thing. You need to just get your Porshe and go out with your friends and find a new man.

Answer 10

honey he obviously didn't care too much and he is sorry if he let his friends dis you like that when he was right there. he should of at least said something to them about it. forget about it. yeah his friends were there first but he should have said something.

Answer 11

He ran behind your Porsche?