ive been askin questions today about how to deal with my ex shes nuts she still loves me and we still keep in contact not by choice, so ive been kinda seeing someone that i work with and she knows that i work with girls cuz i work at a restaurant and well i havent told her that i'vbeentalkn to someone cuz she will flip out and try everything possible for me tostop talkn to her. I feel stupid cuz she's my ex and she has no rite to tell me what to do, but shes so emotionally attached to me and ive told her b4 about me tryin to get with someone else and she says shes gonna take pills n all this ****, which she has b4 and she drinks as well. I just dont get how someone can fall so deeply in love with someone even more when ur not with them and all she ever does is tell me that she misses me How do u just walk away from that and try to move on? it should b so easy for me but i care about the girl we were together for 6 years i just fear she'll really kill herself am i wrong for caring?
2006-12-21 06:46:40 · 5 answers · asked by confused- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My ex wife was like this. She is obsessed with you. It is a condition called OCD (obsessive compulsive disorder). Deal with her straight up. Tell her it's over and to get out of your life. Then get a restraining order if necessary. Good luck.
My ex whined and cried and said she would kill herself, but it was all a bluff. She just wants your attention. However, if she says she's gonna kill herself, tell the police or her parents or her close friends, but don't get involved beyond that.
2006-12-21 07:01:02 · answer #1 · answered by Kent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some peepz are insecure and are dependent on a man or woman. sometimes people want what they cant have even more. if she keeps bothering u just tell her u are seeing somebody and u dont love her. if that doesn't work call the cops. she will get mad and move on with her life. She isnt going 2 kill herself its just a trap 2 try keep u there. Call her parents and tell them what she said. She is obviously unstable just don't talk 2 her ever so she will get over u!!!!
2006-12-21 07:03:47 · answer #2 · answered by thesunnshynne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not wrong for caring but you need to be up front and honest with her. She is your ex you dont need to tell her who your dating better off not say you met someone online or at the mall and you really like them. Be gentle and if she looks like she may harm herself tell her she can always call you. Tell her you two can be friends and let her know a friendship lasts longer than a relationship anyway! then just contact her less and less soon she will find someone else to be attracted too! good luck!
2006-12-21 06:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by matrix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not wrong for caring but there is a limit to how much you actually have to take from this girl. It seems like she has "issues" and quite frankly may need professional help. On the flipside, it kind of seems like you allow this to continue. Quite possibly, if she gets help or if you can work through this with her you may end up back together.
2006-12-21 06:51:25 · answer #4 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably co-dependent. Read up on this subject.
2006-12-21 07:07:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋