Was I too mean?? Read the given situation.(in add'l details)
2006-12-21 06:46:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Me and this guy have been going out for a while. He was holding me in his arms and his friend was telling him to choose me or him. My b/f chose his friend and then his friend goes "bro's b4 ho's". I was so mad that I walked up to my b/f and told him to have fun with his bros. I told him not to call, e-mail, IM, or talk to me, b/c I was 100% serious.
2006-12-21 06:46:13 · update #1
He ran behind my porsche for about an hour before he finally quit. He was a good b/f. Should I give him a second chance??
2006-12-21 06:50:02 · update #2
No, you werent mean. Your so called boyfriend is not mature enough yet to be in a relationship with a girl. Why are you worried that you were mean when he rejected you? If you stay with him you aren't too smart.
If you want a relationship then you need to find someone who is ready and not someone who is controlled by friends.
2006-12-21 06:50:45 · answer #1 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were not too mean. You should've asked him if his bro's can give him what you do. If you really love him and want to take him back, make him suffer a little. Show him how not having you feels.
2006-12-21 15:12:52 · answer #2 · answered by delightful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don;t know. That's a tough predicament .... it's a rule. Bros ALWAYS before Hoes...
But, if I were your boyfriend, I would have said: "Listen, she's not a hoe..."
Except that that's a cop-out because the fact is, you must always pick your friends over some girl...
Too bad you don't get along with the friend.
2006-12-21 14:52:24 · answer #3 · answered by jons_plan 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Good for you!!!!
#1 the BF should not have played his friends stupid game.
#2 You are not A ho, you are a young lady, and you deserve to be treated as such.
#3 Your BF should have stood up for you.
good job stanjding up for yourself
2006-12-21 14:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by hurricanemercedes 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely on the right back. Run away, don't look back. You deserve to be treated better than that. What a jerk you bf is!
2006-12-21 14:49:25 · answer #5 · answered by katydid 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO YOU WEREN'T !!!!
it's so messed up that he chosed his friend before you
girlfriends are before regular friends,i think,
anyway you were on your right to tell him off
after his friend just burned you a while ago...
2006-12-21 14:49:56 · answer #6 · answered by Wigglez =) 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well in a way no
but in a way yes
i think u should find somwhere in ur heart that u can send him an e-mail or IM him before he does
cuz that will make him know that u were mad
but love doesnt end that easy
tell him hes spishal
kkk
thats all
bye
2006-12-21 14:52:04 · answer #7 · answered by Husam Al-Deen 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you totaly did the right thing he had no right to be mean to you like that i am very disappointed in all men who say that!!!
because if we were to say that they would be really pissed and men i know you agree with me when i say you'd be pissed but there was noreason to say that and the friend is a jurk for making his friend chose like that my opinion is that you and your ex weren't ment to be together
2006-12-21 14:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by xjojox_wht_up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should talk to him then decide. He must of regreted it if he was running after you for that long but you were right in what you did, but sometimes people deserve 2nd chances
2006-12-21 14:53:29 · answer #9 · answered by little sister 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes - they were just having fun. A guy has the capacity to have friends and a girl. Jeez....you women take everything too seriously.
2006-12-21 14:49:55 · answer #10 · answered by twicewise 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋