I met this guy and he kept on sending me notes and I kept on throwing them in the garbage bin, but then my bestfriend forced me to give him a chance to be my friend and he bacame my bestfriend I started to like him but now he likes my bestfriend what do I do?
2006-12-21 06:39:54 · 28 answers · asked by digitec95 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
File a lawsuit against him.
I think you have a case against him for alienation of affection.
You're welcome.
2006-12-21 06:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick yourself in the butt for not realizing this sooner. seriously, life goes on and you can always tell him how you feel, but unfortunately for you it's probably too late now. also try being a good sport about the situation,t hought you sdon't have to jump for joy because they got together try not to let your emotional attachment cause you to sabotage your 2 best friends new romance. that's why, you should never judge a book by it's cover without cracking it open and at least skimming the table of contents 1st. All the best.
2006-12-21 14:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by TRUTH HURTZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you interested now because your best (girl)friend is getting the attention you did not want?
Seriously! It could be a case of wanting something only when it is unavailable, but if (when) it is being offered to you, you find it unattractive. Not appealing enough to draw or hold your attention!
Perhaps you should allow those two best friends of yours to enjoy what they have and look elsewhere. That would be fair!
Barring that, you just might ruin three people's lives - his, hers and yours.
Don't let selfishness mess up a good thing.
2006-12-21 14:46:57 · answer #3 · answered by SANCHA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me too & I was kicking myself. The only thing I was able to do was sit back & wait to see the outcome- because I thought about it & losing a best friend would be more important than losing a guy. So I tried to keep telling myself that if he did want her there would be nothing I could do about it. It turned out that she was too pesty/ annoying for his taste, so nothing came of it. I know it bothers you, so try dropping casual hints around him, letting him know that you're still interested- now before it's too late. It worked for me.
2006-12-21 14:48:07 · answer #4 · answered by darkshadows9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you were too good for a guy once, he's not likely to like you in any way except as a friend ever, unless you can prove to him that you like him. But you have to really like him. It would seem, however, that you are a little too late, though. Talk to your best friend, and maybe him.
There is a small possibility that he's "likeing" your best friend to make you jelous. Not extremely likely, however.
2006-12-21 15:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by Weston 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why couldn't you just have given him a chance to start with? Well, I guess you could ask him out since you are already best friends (I hope you're his best friend too). You waited too long though. Good luck!
2006-12-21 14:45:04 · answer #6 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this happened to me before, i'd say give your friend a chance, you had yours but you passed. maybe it will work, maybe it won't, who knows but at least you won't be feeling guilty for trying to interfere with his chances. I'm pretty sure there are plenty of guys who want to go out with you so don't stress over him. Better to be friends than not to be friends at all. right? GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-21 14:49:27 · answer #7 · answered by RoRo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Trust me. I've been there, done that. Once someone makes up there mind, there is no turning back. Save yourself the heartache and let him go. Good luck and hope I helped.
2006-12-21 14:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by just another girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over him and move on, honey. You had your chance, and you blew it. Maybe next time you will look beyond the exterior, and see a person for more than their looks.
2006-12-21 14:43:34 · answer #9 · answered by dkiller88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give them a break. You had your chance. Now forget about him or you will loose both him and your best friend.
2006-12-21 14:43:47 · answer #10 · answered by Steve K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit back and watch while your Best friend dates this guy. Sorry but you may have missed your chance.
2006-12-21 14:42:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋