i sent my pic through his sister to him and since then he has been vary interested in me. he divorced for the second time, and he has two kids.He calls me more, But my fear is that i ve slept with two other guys his sister introduced me to, i don't feel comfortable at all when i am aroun her cos i feel ashamed of myself. can i discuss it with her to see how she feels or should i end the relationship before i get to involved with the guy?
2006-12-21 06:37:22 · 14 answers · asked by brown suger 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well it doesn't sound too good, about the other two guys.
I'm a guy and i tell you we don't like this kind of thing!!! even though some say at the beginning, oh! I'm cool with that. Trust me no one does deep in and you will find out down the road in relationship(sorry).
I tell you a personal experience, I'm 47 and been in few relationship with almost a 20 years difference, last one 27 years dif. I tell you It's awesome for some time, you're unbeatable and worlds is yours, but temporarly. Eighter you or other party will end it after sometime. So darling, you can have lots of fun as long as you remember, this not gonna stay.
Good luck & don't get hurt
2006-12-21 06:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay so my first response when i read this was wow ur too young and immature to know what love is!!! Then i got to thinking i don't know ur age so i can't make assumptions but i can give u advice. If ur underage: Get real! ur too young to know what love is. Stop kidding urself. If ur legal: then be careful. He probably just wants a little somethin if u know what i mean. Trust me there r other fish in the sea. Others that r more ur age and share ur view of life. Age makes a difference when its that much of a difference. People have a harder time relating. He may think of u a s a little sister. I'm sorry if i've hurt ur feelings or u feel stepped on, but i believe u need a reality check.
2006-12-21 06:59:37 · answer #2 · answered by hail_jimmy_twinkle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be careful! people on the phone and online lie and normally are not what you expect them to be! Your probably falling for an image or person that this guy is creating and may end up being disappointed or shocked when the time comes, meet him but take your own car so you can leave when you want and also in a very public area so your not trapped. Good luck to you! hope you meet the man of your dreams and not the man of right now!
2006-12-21 06:43:30 · answer #3 · answered by matrix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're in fantasy land. I doubt you're 'in love' with a guy you really don't know. Maybe his sister has created a false image. It's not going to be as much fun as you think dating an older guy...you'll probably get to spend most weekends with his kids. Don't you wonder why he's had two failed marriages? Consider how little value he probably places on marriage and/or committed relationships. You probably believe the old lines about it all being the ex wives fault. Don't! Find a fun guy that's your own age and forget about making excuses to his sister. He can't even hook up with a girl by himself!! Get real!
2006-12-21 06:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you might as well talk to the sister. Its a secret that won't be a secret forever.
Besides, that happens a lot these days where someone dates someone who slept with a friend of theirs.
You don't seem like a bad person, you probably are just seeking love the wrong way.
2006-12-21 06:40:29 · answer #5 · answered by jons_plan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I somehow doubt that your actually falling in love with someone you've never even met but you could be getting attracted to or feeling like this is someone that you'd like to get to know better. In time you may actually fall in love but this doesn't happen overnight, nor does it truly happen with people who've never met. As far as sleeping with other males so what. That is the past and as such should not have any effect on new relationships. Certainly he also has ghosts in his closet so allow them to remain there. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-21 06:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End the relationship and if your under 18, call the FBI. If your over 18, find another guy 20 years older than you who's friends and family you have not had sex with. Nothing like new beginnings!
2006-12-21 06:40:50 · answer #7 · answered by mck642 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, 2 kids and 2 divorces says a little something about this guy... Plus, the 20 year difference. Be very careful, and don't be impulsive.
2006-12-21 06:42:37 · answer #8 · answered by Wocka wocka 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as he accepts your past, it doesn't matter what his sister thinks of you. EVERYBODY has skeletons in thier closet. Just because his sister knows yours, don't let it ruin your chance at true love! I am 27 years old and my boyfriend is 44 years old. He's the best thing that ever happened to me. Older is better :~)
2006-12-21 06:44:53 · answer #9 · answered by lauralie1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go 4 it ive been in love with someone 20 years younger love knows no age
2006-12-21 06:39:22 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋