We had the wedding date, all the reservations, the dress and my ring. He then decided it just wasn't completely right, at least right now, for us to get married, so we broke up. The thing is, he misses me terribly, hasn't thrown away ANY of his pictures and videos of us (on his computer and camera), still has our "wedding music" playlist we made on his itunes for the reception, tells me he misses me, and has hinted around and joked about me kissing him or him kissing me. I know he still loves me and thinks about me all the time. Even the artwork I bought him for his half-birthday is still on the wall in his living room. He asked me to take him to the airport to go home for xmas, when he easily could have had his roomates or the shuttle service come get him (which he's done before). I know I shouldn't give him "me" if we're not dating, but I want to kiss him, even if just on the hand, but know that's probably inappropriate. What do I do? And what if HE kisses me, what do I say?
2006-12-21 06:36:51 · 12 answers · asked by alissa t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow your heart. If it feels like the right thing to do at the time then go with it. If not, don't force it.
2006-12-21 06:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by Pamela 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry your wedding plans didn't work out. But as to the issue of whether to kiss the guy or not, why the heck not?! It may do you both some good. So, don't just let him get by with a little peck on the cheek, kiss that guy for all he's worth and give him something to think about. Even if you don't want to reconcile, KISS THE FOOL!! It may keep you from kissing the wrong guy after he's left for the holidays.
2006-12-21 14:50:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i totaly underst that he wasnt ready,he was to scared for the big step,but he change his mind in the last moment...he is an imature!dont u think?if u still love him,then try to find a good way to kiss him,but i think he want this too...so,when the good time its coming do it!!!life is short my dear!i wish for u all the luck,lets hope u will be the future bride from Y answers! :)))
2006-12-21 14:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He dumped you and you still want to kiss him? What part of EX don't you understand? Call him up and tell you are sick and to take a taxi. Nothing good can come out of kissing him....
2006-12-21 14:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
actually, you shouldn't take him to the airport. give the man time to think things through. if he broke things off, he had to have had a good reason and if he doesn't then let the bastage suffer for a while!
2006-12-21 14:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he got cold feet! That you guys are still in love w/one another, go for it kiss him! Maybe it will bring you back together! Best of luck to you! Happy Holidays!
2006-12-21 14:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by mare122870 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Just think carefully because emotions will all start to come in to play again
2006-12-21 14:40:30 · answer #7 · answered by karen H 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep following him like a puppy dog, baby!!!
Absolutely PATHETIC!!!!!!
Merry Christmas
Mr Happy
:o)
2006-12-21 14:41:49 · answer #8 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what's a half-birthday? and are you with someone right now? If not GO FOR IT
2006-12-21 14:40:58 · answer #9 · answered by graciegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still wanted to marry you or even have ANYTHING with you, he wouldn't be your ex fiance. He's just horny, that's why he's being nice to you. Hell no, don't kiss him.
2006-12-21 14:40:35 · answer #10 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋