My girlfriend and I tentatively made plans that need to be nailed down for xmas eve, xmas/day and potentially NYE. We are both in 40's. She got back from a family visit sunday and was to call but didnt. I waited till Tuesday and called and left msg. She called back. I brought up that I feel its a courtesy to think to call when back in town. She said I could call too, and claimed she didn't remember she was to call even though we agreed before she left. Anyway, we spoke tuesday, she got quiet, a couple issues we are working through came up (like I'm not feeling the love here). She said she didn't want or have time to talk then, but to call her back after 8pm. I called at 9 and 10 with no returns. Called Wednesday twice with no returns. She is busy organizing a big xmas party tonight for work. I am thinking I should let this sit until she picks up the phone but need to know where I stand with these plans for those events very soon. What gives?
2006-12-21 06:35:48 · 5 answers · asked by Rickso 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait for her to call you... if you call too much you might come accross as needy..
2006-12-21 06:38:51 · answer #1 · answered by ryanisalifestyle 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do not call her; the ball is in her court now- she knows you have plans, and that you want to get together, so let her make the next move. This is a strategy employed by women to see how needy a guy is. Your constant calling is satisfying some sadistic urge, present in all women to one degree or another, to control, to call the shots. If she calls, fine. If not, go out and do what you had plans to do with her, and have fun. Do not let her control you!
2006-12-21 14:49:02 · answer #2 · answered by dkiller88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aFirst, if she was away and was thrown right into a Christmas Party at work...she is probably frazzled. You do need some attention also. Have you offered to help her with the party. Said hey can I help pick things up, let me get the snacks and stuff...You know the being helpful kinda of last minutes stuff. That way you get to talk to her, see her, and support. I would appreciate that....After Christmas everything might run smoother...
2006-12-21 14:43:11 · answer #3 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wait 4 her to call u
2006-12-21 14:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
DEF do not call her again... You are going to seem stalkerish the next time you call her, so DONT DO IT. Good luck
2006-12-21 14:42:58 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋