Probably. But the real issue is that the trust cannot be re-established, that's a huge violation of trust that will not go away on its own. Maybe it's more about the attitude the cheater protrays, whether he regrets his actions, whether he has matured, whether he's learned from the mistake (if he considers it a mistake and doesn't blame his actions on someone else) but I don't think I could remain with someone who cheated on me b/c I would not believe that they truly respected me. If a guy values a relationship he wouldn't jeopardize it by cheating--it's that simple. Don't compromise b/c you think you love him....loving him won't make him a good partner that you can count on. You can learn to love someone else. The impt. thing is to love yourself enough to pass on those who mistreat you. Good Luck
2006-12-21 06:27:15
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answered by Anonymous
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If a man (or woman, don't forget this part ladies, you cheat too) cheats once, the odds they will cheat again are about as good as betting that Howard Stern will say "****", Rosie O'Doneel will munch rug and you will never, ever understand anything George Bush has to say...in case I lost you..that means it's an absolute certainty. Humans are creatures of habit and once we have done something it is just that much easier for us to do it again. I've cheated on girls before and I'm not ashamed to admit it. But here is the thing, although I was physically cheating, I wasn't emotionally cheating. Sure I was having a three banger with two hot coeds while snorting blow and doing jager bombs..but that was just for fun..I didn't love these girls..just the idea of them. if, however, my girl had been into those wild parties, I wouldn't have had to look elsewhere to sate my carnal needs. In the end, when a lover cheats..it's not their fault, it's yours, if you were as interesting as you were when you two first met, he wouldn't have had to cheat. So shame on you..BTW, if you dump this loser..I'm always here like the Eagle ready to swoop down for some hot rebound action...giggity giggity goo!!
2006-12-21 14:28:03
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answered by Blind Sighted 3
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I'm a guy who hasn't ever cheated on any of his girlfriends, but I'm friends with some guys who have. From what I've heard from each of them, if they've done it to you once, they'll do it again. I don't know why, so I can't give you an answer there. But from what I know, once they've started cheating, they will never be done. The best thing you could do right now is say goodbye.
2006-12-21 14:25:58
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answered by paladin12002000 4
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from my own experience, yes yes yes . I have been with the same man for 16 years. we have two kids toghetr. He has cheated on me more times than i can count. I am still with him for my kids(13&14) sake. A man will cheat it doesnt matter if he says he will never do it again. the next time he will try not to get caught. if your man cheats or has cheated, dont belive a word he says.
2006-12-21 14:26:13
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answered by teresa_lynn_36 1
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Well from what I hear...Yes he will...something I was always told...once a cheater, always a cheater. The way I see it, if he really loved you to begin with, then he would have no reason to look at another woman, and too if he was truely IN LOVE with you, it wouldn't have even gotten up in the first place...because there is a difference in loving someone and bein IN LOVE with someone!
2006-12-21 14:24:52
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answered by sweetnsassy3723 1
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The answer is always yes. People who cheat do it because they can't get enough of sex. It has nothing to do with the person themselves. I hope if this person cheated on you that you have left them because they will do it again. Thank you.
2006-12-21 14:26:17
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answered by cookie 6
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Most likely YES!
2006-12-21 14:25:56
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answered by GiGi 4
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once a cheat, always a cheat. you better be moving on, so you don't get hurt by this dog. look at the facts, not what he SAYS. boys lie to cover up their a#$! remember that always!
2006-12-21 14:25:16
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answered by Anonymous
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Unfortunately he'll most likely do it again. A good way to predict future behavior is past behavior.
2006-12-21 14:22:47
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answered by capnemo 5
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Once a man cheats, they always will do it. Once a cheater, always a cheater!
2006-12-21 14:22:19
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answered by Jen 5
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