i think we both needed a break.....she sed a few days or a week and having her is worth any wait.....but im like freaking out....should i b really worried or is this normal or what....any help plz!!!
2006-12-21 06:18:45 · 11 answers · asked by mtbr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this whole thing is making me feel like crap.....
2006-12-21 06:22:43 · update #1
its kinda a distance relationship and she seemed to lose interest and stop saying anything sweet.....or ever emailing me back......i dunno
2006-12-21 06:32:59 · update #2
It's normal for girls who aren't sure that they still have deep rooted feelings for you. It could also be that there is another guy she's been interested in and doesn't want to cheat.
If you've been fighting though, it is absolutely normal and you should take a break.
If she's been distant, then take the break and forget about her for a while. She'll realize when you act like you don't care that she probably still does want you... the whole wanting what you can't have syndrome.
In any case, follow your instincts. If they are telling you that she is cheating, then she might be... if you can sense she isn;t the same towards you anymore, there is a LOT more going on in her mind then she is letting on.
Listen, trust your instincts, because that's why you have them. Good luck...
2006-12-21 06:23:26 · answer #1 · answered by jons_plan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know....it depends on how things were before the break. Maybe she really is just busy and stressed right now and needs a few days to chill out.
I understand your worry though. I would be freaked out too! Try to make some plans with friends and family and don't call her.
Allow her to really miss you during the break.
2006-12-21 06:24:54 · answer #2 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to worry because this relationship is over. Sounds like she is breaking up with you. A few days...a week...maybe a month...how about a year or 5 years...
Move on, there are lots of other beautiful women out there.
2006-12-21 06:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by Kent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, what is the point of a 2 week break? what could possibly change in two weeks. If she really wanted to stay together, she would just have asked for a little alone time or more time with friends for those weeks. Sry dude, but this **** is over...
2006-12-21 07:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont Be bc Im goin to enlighten you, her girlspeak is CODE FOR: "I found someone more cuter, interesting than you and I think I want to know him/all of them, but no girl like me wants the responsibility for your hurt-mad reaction bc that would stress me out more and you're not worth it if I have to tell you the truth so hey I'll just say we need a break and you take that anyway you want besides that, hey what you dont know, can't hurt you right!"
tip: DO REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY: AGREE with her and tell her have fun.
2006-12-21 06:26:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
me...personally..i hate breaks!!! i mean whats the point of having a break! like if your going through problems and your with someone why take a break out of that relationship when your other half is there with you to make you feel better..right?? i think taking breaks are just like breaking up because your not with that person...
2006-12-21 06:24:13 · answer #6 · answered by cute as a button!.♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So have a little faith, no don't be worried, what's the worst that could happen? She could have someone else, just prepared your self for the worst and hope for the best but keep your eyes in a pivotal direction.
2006-12-21 06:26:29 · answer #7 · answered by Conrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and see if it is really just a week, if it turns out to be more, get worried!!
Good luck
2006-12-21 06:24:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-28 02:25:27 · answer #9 · answered by merickel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she needs time to think things over if you love her and she loves you then dont worry about it just give her space and see where it goes from there i hope it works otu
2006-12-21 06:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by kayia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋