I dont know my girls guys friends who she said were users and only want a piece. So when she says she wants to hang out with them I feel I should hang out with them to because I dont trust the guys. Do you think its better for a couple to hang out with opposite sex friends at least until everyone is comfortable with each other
2006-12-21 06:17:16 · 23 answers · asked by 1authority 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like you're just watching out for her. just don't cross the line
2006-12-21 06:19:37 · answer #1 · answered by Sexxssay? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think that she should have any friends of a different sex that you can't meet but then again it comes down to trust do you trust her it depends on your relationship cause you could meet them and they'll still try to sleep with your girl behind your back trust me I've been there and done that with my man and from my experience No Don't Trust No One you are not wrong if you feel that you need to be with her yes, me and my man have mutual friends that we hang out with and that's cool but when the friend that they're claiming as a friend is someone that they keep hidden and never let you meet them that's a big problem point blank if you don't have no communication and trust than what do you have you need to leave her alone
2006-12-21 06:45:15 · answer #2 · answered by madadanabitch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in this case you're overprotective because she gives you a reason to be. What about finding someone who doesn't hang out with "users" that want a piece?? There are plenty of wonderful girls out there who will be devoted to you and you only and don't appreciate or hang with people who want one thing. Sounds like she does it all for the attention.
2006-12-21 06:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by Peach 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No--I agree with you that you should be included in the group situations. She should be willing to invite you into her circle of friends and why wouldn't she? If she really likes you they know about you already (which will probably serve to keep her safer) and it seems reasonable that they would be anxious to meet you. So I'd be suspicious if she tried to exclude you from these outings. And I wonder why she'd want to continue the friendships if they guys are in fact 'users who only wanted a piece'. Opposite sex friends are kind of tricky and a couple needs to be careful how they handle such issues. I doubt she'd appreciate your hanging onto female friends that didn't make her feel welcome. If she's not proud of her new boyfriend there's a problem. good luck
2006-12-21 06:22:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 17:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her desire to hang out with guys like that says she likes the attention. Why else would a woman hang out with guy "friends" that wanted a 'peice' from her and was just friendly?
I think it is okay for people in relationships to have other sex friends, especially if they were friends before meeting their mate. I think its sweet; shows how caring you are. I would however voice your concerns in a friendly, funny way.
Good luck!
2006-12-21 06:23:04 · answer #6 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I like the way guys called it over protective when its them but jealous when its the girl doing it.....lol.....thats too funny....lol.....every guy in my past said they were "worried" too. Come on dude, your jealous. Just say it. As far as hanging out with the opposite sex, I dont see why you cant all hang out together. Truth is most people aren't friends with the opposite sex because all they want is friendship. If you cant all hang out together than neither of you has business hanging out with the opposite sex.
2006-12-21 06:23:42 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah...overprotective is a bad thing. Being protective is a good thing. Big difference for quite the same terms. I know you care about your friend, and wouldn't want her to end up with the wrong dude, but you have to know that your friend is a big girl and she can date anyone she wants to, perhaps anyone she feels comfortable with. If you know, and you have physical evidence that your friend's boyfriend is a moron, jerk, killer, whatever, then you should bring that to her attention. You sit down with her, and you show her the evidence, otherwise she will find it hard to believe you, and think that you're jealous.
2006-12-21 06:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by Mstislav 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you have a right to be concerned about your girlfriend. I think it's a good idea to hang out with opposite sex friends, if you want to. I don't understand why she wouldn't want you too. I always want my boyfriend to hang out with my friends, but he doesn't. I can see why you are concerned. And I don't think you are acting too overproctective.
But you might want to ask yourself why is your girlfriend hanging out with these other guys? Are you not giving her enough attention? Was she friends before she started dating them and she still wants her freedom? You might want to talk with her about her actions.
2006-12-21 06:22:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's controlling, but i see where your coming from, u just have to trust your girl and make sure she doesn't hang out with a bunch a guys or the same guy all the time.whoa i didn't see that part....she hangs with guys who she knows only want some, ask her why she wants to hang out with them and scratch the rest i said earlier....she should consider how you feel, i mean would she like it if you hung out with some promiscuous women.
2006-12-21 06:20:25 · answer #10 · answered by atldutchess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends on age and maturity level
If they are 10, then yes, watch every more till you know they are safe
and teach them
so when they get to 18 , you don't have to even worry
and ,yes, just hang out 'till or if it gets comfy, a year or a minute
2006-12-21 06:20:39 · answer #11 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋