I just started this school so i dont know many people i just started
2 weeks ago. I do have feelins for him i really do but what do i do with my friend?!
2006-12-21 06:06:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmmm, say YES dude!!!!!!
if she's your real friend, then she better be ok
with it. Who do care most?
her happines or yours?
make up your mind though....
2006-12-21 06:16:25 · answer #1 · answered by Wigglez =) 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You say no! If you are new in the school and have made a friend, you don't want to mess that up. Also, you don't want to start out with a reputation of a girl who dates her friends' boyfriends. Try to just be friends with the guy and maybe later, when you are settled in and can really see who your friends are, you can date him.
2006-12-21 14:09:44 · answer #2 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you like not having any friends, the answer is NO! If he only dumped her 2 hrs before he is likely just playing you to make her jealous and if you go out with a friend's ex-boyfriend it will show you are not loyal to your friends and likely will not make anymore female ones for a long time to come.
Give it time and space and if you still like him in say, the Spring of this year and she has moved on to another fella, it will likely be ok.
2006-12-21 14:12:52 · answer #3 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem and here is what i did. well first i told him no, i dont really think that it would be a good idea to go out with you, cuz my friendship is valued way higher than a boyfriend. im really sorry but, that would ttly wreck my friendship with "whatever her name is". then i think he wouldn't take it too seriously. he will understand. when i told my friend she thanked me a lot, and now we are still best friends. the guy moved on and we are all really good friends. if u like the guy, just act as though you are best friends, but DONT flirt too much. or else he will like you even more. i hope this advice works for you!
2006-12-21 14:21:53 · answer #4 · answered by bombilla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no to the guy. At least, if you care about your friendship. Also, if he's going to be THAT disrespectful to her, (breaking up with her and then asking out her FRIEND two hours later) then he'll be that disrespectful to you, too.
2006-12-21 14:09:42 · answer #5 · answered by Jess H 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You NEVER go out with a friends ex, under any circumstances, if you want to remains friends with the girl/boy.
2006-12-21 14:10:05 · answer #6 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you are truly good friends or not. If is a my friend that I'm close with, I tell him to go to hell. But if is not my friend that I'm close with, and I like him and feel he is worth my time I will give it a chance.
2006-12-21 14:14:13 · answer #7 · answered by ism 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good rule to go by: Don't date your friends exes! True friends wouldn't do that.
2006-12-21 14:10:11 · answer #8 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just say no!
Anyone who jumps in relationships between friends isn't hinking about relationships. He's getting notches in his belt.
Remember, boys come and go . . friends last forever.
2006-12-21 14:10:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You say hell No!
unless you a hoe and you don't want to be friends with you friend anymore!
2006-12-21 14:11:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say no! if your friend is really impotant to you you shouldnt date him, unless you dont care about your frien.
the question to you from me is ... Whats more important your friend or the guy?
2006-12-21 14:19:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋