2006-12-21 06:05:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sounds like it's time to get a new boyfriend.
2006-12-21 06:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by Royalhinney 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"My boyfriend and I have been together for five years and we argue all the time. We have nothing to talk about anymore without a fuss."
What is the question here? Are you asking if you should break up? If so, yes. If you are bored with each other now think about 40 years from now if you were to get married. Things that are wrong in a relationship just get worse with age unless they are fixed properly in the present. I don't know how old you both are so I am not sure what other advice to give you. Sorry!
2006-12-21 06:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by Santa's Elf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder if you can even say to yourself "remember the good old days when we were in love".
I'm amazed that you've lasted 5 years together. All you have to do is ask yourself do you see yourself going through 15 more years of the same? I would bet you wouldn't. Maybe it's time to cut your loses and be on your own for a while. In time you meet other people and find out that spending your time arguing about things is such a waste!
2006-12-21 06:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by Tantalizing Dutch Delilah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling. I am at the same point right now but take it day by day.
We did this list write 5 things you love about the other person and 5 things that concern you. Not hate because you don't want a negative force.
Go back and forth reading then explain each response. Sounds cheesy but we both learned things that we had no idea about from each other even after 5 years. Give it a try it can't hurt. People must want to change to change themselves.
2006-12-21 08:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by afj60 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look me and my man have been together for 6years and for the last 2 or 3 years we have fussed and fighted alot to the point we was ready to go so we both sat down oneday when i had enough and we told each other what we hated about the other and what we loved about the other and when we were done we wrote up a little conteact to say that we would work on the things we hated and loved and if it didn,t work out then we would split and so far we have only gotten better at it but if you don,t feel the love is there then call it quits and if you both still love each other alot then it,s worth a shot
2006-12-21 06:15:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u guy both not be knowing how to talkin' English. People, for real, work on your language skills. I don't care if it's English, Spanish, Chinese or Swahili. This is terrible.
For the question. Five years of fussing and arguing cannot possibly mean happiness. Move on. Whatever you do, do not procreate.
2006-12-21 06:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by mck642 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how this is...do you live together? probaly so. I have been through this alot. But you to need to let each other breathe a little. let him go out, you go out. and go out together sometimes. Try to have more fun. That way you can talk about the things you did. find creative ways to put some spice back into things. send him flowers at work for no reason. cook a romantic dinner and put a fancy table cloth and name tags like a resturant. Try to find something mutual you to share in common (movies,kids,favorite tv show) and talk and laugh about it. Good Luck!!
2006-12-21 06:14:02 · answer #7 · answered by Shampaine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry just find stuff new to do and plan ahead I don't mean like what your going to do but plan your going to do it in advance make the house romantic , candles etc have a bath get relaxed then it will feel so much more romantic :) xx
2016-05-23 05:55:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If it is bad now, it only gets worse. Sure people change, but after 5 years its very unlikely.
2006-12-21 06:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by juniorramos1974 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on.
2006-12-21 06:08:30 · answer #10 · answered by MiMi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋