what should i do i just get fustrated and have no patience with him
whats is wrong i made really mad last night what should i do he asking for me to learn how to say sorry
2006-12-21 05:42:13 · 21 answers · asked by Jesenia O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Quit being a drama queen and learn how to develop a relationship like an adult with respect, love, consideration, and understanding.
2006-12-21 05:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by Jon O 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First of all you realize that you do have an attitude toward your boyfriend. That's always the first step is realizing that you were wrong. I would apologize, then offer to make it up to him. Take him out on an awesome date, and ask him to start completely over. Tell him you don't know what has been wrong with you and just start over. When you feel like you are going to blow look at him, and tell him you don't want to fight. Then simply tell him what is wrong with you... And tell him how frustrated you get and why. He should listen to you, and be more thoughtful of you and your feelings. IF he really cares about you...
I hope this works for you, and good luck!
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Stacy M
2006-12-21 13:48:31 · answer #2 · answered by Stacy M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety i know how you are feeling...i have the same problem. not only do i get frustraited with him (hes always on the computer), i am frustrated with myself. With this time of year especially i have financial problem out the ying yang...in between jobs, car is broke down with no cash to fix it, and my loving parents are in bad health. Last night i took it out on him and i fel even more bad when (hes of those "bad boys"), he teared up and said, "Damn it autumn, why do you got to be such a bich to me...i love you."
In the end we all have problem weather it is with or without that person. try to overlook that little things and enjoy what you do have. if you start to feel like you want to go off on him just leave the room, get some fresh air, or open up a book to take your mind off the situation. if he askes what is wrong talk to him heart to heart and you would be amazed at the good that comes from it.
good luck sweety.
2006-12-21 13:49:59 · answer #3 · answered by autumn_aka_slick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking that he's always out to hurt you. thats what happened to me a month ago with my current bf. i was scared with what i was feeling towards him and knew that he didnt feel the same way. so that pissed me off everytime he opened his mouth. if you care about him u will be able to make this work. atleast his telling you what he wants instead of just being mad at you too. so learn how to say and mean sorry.
2006-12-21 13:46:19 · answer #4 · answered by gigi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pride is not wise when your in a relationship. If you love him and care for him then leave your pride and ego on the side and just say it you know what im sorry i know id been acting dumb and im so sorry. it wont make you weak or defeated it'll just show your maturity..
saying sorry comes a long way if you knew how powerfull that word is
2006-12-21 13:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been having the same problem w/my husband. Are you away from each other alot? Stressed at work? You have to accept him for the way he is and not try to change him. That always helps.
2006-12-21 13:44:45 · answer #6 · answered by MiMi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well instead of demanding all of the time , learn to listen to him and stop it with the attitude ,
2006-12-21 13:45:36 · answer #7 · answered by gooddy_2_shoee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you happy in your relationship? sounds like you are having doubts, you will be saying sorry for a long time if you dont figure out what the real problem is.....
2006-12-21 13:48:31 · answer #8 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to think before you speak then you won't need to say you're sorry.
2006-12-21 13:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say you're sorry.P.S what's making you so angry?Relax find out what the big problem is.
2006-12-21 13:45:29 · answer #10 · answered by lorraine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋