2006-12-21 05:39:41 · 14 answers · asked by jojo da penguin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not to be the naysayer of the bunch, but if you were intimate and now she is saying she just wants to be friends, then that really is all she wants...she took a test drive but doesn't want to buy. Women sleep with their "best male friends" only on the rebound or when they are hurting...it either of these was the reason she slept with you, you have already experienced the kiss of death as far as a romantic relationship.
You will just be torturing yourself being just her "friend" and holding out hope that it will be more and likely cutting yourself off from other women that would want to be in a relationship with you.
2006-12-21 05:48:40 · answer #1 · answered by bottleblondemama 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before I can give you a decent comment, answer these questions:
How old are you?
How many times have you been with her intimately and also do you mean have you had actual intercourse?
Is there another guy in the picture? If so what is he like?
How long have you been best friends?
2006-12-21 13:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by mr_slacker70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to remain friends then don't force her/him into a relationship. Just accept it as it is and who knows,maybe in a couple months or so, he/she will want a commited relationship. Just take it one step at a time,ok.
2006-12-21 13:44:30 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Explain her that after intimacy your not friends but something more. there is not friendship after ´being intimate. if you are in love go for that. Good luck!
2006-12-21 13:42:53 · answer #4 · answered by Garnet 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay friends - after getting intimate, you will be lucky to keep a friendship....so dont push for more...after being friends for a while she may want more again - she was obviously interested before....maybe she's just scared and doesnt want to be anymore than friends for now....
2006-12-21 13:44:02 · answer #5 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well try to talk to her and tell her how you really feel about her
And want to go to the next level of relationship
And try to take her out somewhere and propose to her on your knees
She will be amused...trust me =)
Hopefully this helps
Good Luck =)
2006-12-21 13:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by JeZzZ J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she wantted to try it out and she got a tast of it and know she has you where she wants you, just play it cool and watch what happenis when you bring another women around she will be right back up on your nuts
2006-12-21 14:46:08 · answer #7 · answered by you have ? i have a answer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then just remain friends don't push anything
2006-12-21 13:41:21 · answer #8 · answered by fiestylady 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She doesn't want to hurt the relationship. When the time is right, then it will present itself.
2006-12-21 13:43:13 · answer #9 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go back to the basics learn how to please a woman she might not want to be your friend but your lover for ever!for us who were born in southern Europe we don't need it but you people have to study very hard to please a woman!
2006-12-21 13:46:23 · answer #10 · answered by dnm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋