I met this guy who is 3 years younger than me, he is a dr. I got the impress that he thought I liked him, which was not the truth. From the first day I started working there he asked me what my astrolog sign is, whether I have a bf etc etc. So, I kind mentioned in the middle of a conversation that I have a bf, even though I don't. The only reason I said that is that he mentioned (before I stated to him that I have a bf) that he has a gf. Any ways, every time I leave work, he shakes my hand. Which I think is really weird. He asks a lot of personal questions about my family, what music I listen to, what I do for fun etc. Also he asked me if my bf and I are serious, if he is the one, and how long we have been tog. Just last week he was talking in the workplace and he ment that he is dating a girl. He did not ment the word gf. I also found out from a 3rd party that works with him that he does not have a gf. Is he interested in me or not ? Should I give him my no or is that too forward?
2006-12-21 05:35:05 · 5 answers · asked by Maggie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I think you should stop lying to guys. Why do people have to complicate things so much? This would have been so straightforward if only you had both told the truth. Good luck!
2006-12-21 05:43:35 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you are interested and he's just dating, then go for it. Just realize that if it doesnt work out you'll have to see him every time you work at the same time.
Walk up to him and ask him, so did you ask me if I had a boyfriend because you are interested? If he says yes, then say well now's your chance to ask me out. Then see how much of a fool he makes of himself..
He'll be flattered and flustered, I'm interested in how this pans out, so email me when your done.
2006-12-21 13:40:52 · answer #2 · answered by Cabbage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy seems like a nice guy. Hes genuinely trying to get to know a little something about you. He has a job and thats hard to find in a man now and days. He seems to like you but hes keeping it simple and professional because he thinks your dating someone. If you dont like him dont lead him to believe you do . Give him your no. The man is probably nice looking we know he has a good job, he shows sincerity hell whats not to like im sure hes not gonna have his pride crushed to shreads just because you dont like him.
2006-12-21 13:47:36 · answer #3 · answered by meka g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do pursue the guy do it slowly don't expect too much. If may lead to something it may not. So don't get too into the situation to the point that your feelings may get hurt. Good luck.
2006-12-21 13:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by Blk F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he is interested in u. mayb u can try giving him ur number. if he called then move on. have a date or whatever with him. but if he dont u got nothing to lose.
2006-12-21 22:07:44 · answer #5 · answered by kiko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋