See my last asked question for additional details, but summary is - boyfriends ex wont leave him alone after repreat attemps from him to ask her to stop texting, not answering any calls or emails, etc. He has stopped all communication with her but she still sends drunk texts like last night which I responded to with "Sorry, this is his girlfriend. Hes sleeping but Ill tell him you appologized" (she texted a 'take me back, im so sorry' one)
She still doesnt get it. So, now can I write her a nice email just stating that she needs to move on? Maybe hearing it from me, the new girlfriend, will be pretty blatant? (im 23, hes 27, we plan on getting engaged around July).
What can I say in this email? How to word it? She needs to hear from a third party that she needs to back off and have a little respect for herself and his relationship.
What do I say to make her get that she needs to leave us alone!!
2006-12-21 05:32:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Simple... Reject her email address... so it bounces back to her...
2006-12-21 05:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by momof3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is still able to contact your bf then he hasn't done everything to be sure that she has no way of contacting....
Avoiding her calls is not enough, he will have to go as far as changing his numbers, email. And if she still continues to make contact then he will have to get a restraining order on her for harassment.
If he isn't willing to go this far to stop her, then he is not really done with her or at least don't want to lose all communication.
In life you can be nice, but when nice don't work, you have to get tougher and that means really exercising all of your rights.
Your involvement will only give her more fuel to fight with. This is between your bf and his ex, put the pressure on him, because he has not used all of his options.
Once she breaks the restraining order, off to jail she goes and I betcha she'll get the message then.
2006-12-21 13:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't do it in an e-mail.... I would do it face to face with you and your b/f present and tell her that he no longer wants her around and for her to leave you alone....... that way she knows you both are serious about this an no mixed signals from anyone....... If she keeps it up tell her she is harrassing you and your boyfriend and if she doesn't stop you will press charges that usally works the first time.... Hope all works out for ya Good Luck
2006-12-21 13:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he really wanted her out of his life he would change his phone number and cellphone and pager and even email.. the guy obviously wants attention and wants you to see all these messages.. Ask him why he hasnt done this
and well i think it'll make you look bad writing to her it'll put you as low as shes gone
2006-12-21 13:39:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is a freindly reminder that your boyfriend has moved on. I suggest you do the same. The next message will be a restraining order from our lawyer, Signed--the new girlfriend.
2006-12-21 13:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
just exactually what you said girl f^^k her.And change th e-mail the number too.She has the nerve to come around kick her *** first than call the cops be a ***** and lie to the cops saying she laid a hand on you first.
2006-12-21 13:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by tino 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
put her on the ignore list.....i wouldnt e-mail her....it will make you look like you cant handle a little healthy competition....if you know what your guy wants - who cares how hard she tries to win him back....if she wins - he wasnt yours anyway
2006-12-21 13:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes i whould but dont be mean about it our else she will proubly do it more just to get u mad
2006-12-21 13:37:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋