say we were like going to cinema. aged 17. she's your first girlfriend or would you just expect tp go halves?
2006-12-21 05:28:40 · 15 answers · asked by ♪ Jackielynn 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would most of the time, if I had the money. But at 17, he might not. Bring some spare cash just in case. I think you should at least offer to split it. Good luck!
2006-12-21 05:31:57 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, who asked who out? Normally, whoever asked the other out, by default usually pays.
How old is the couple? Let's say high school age, going dutch is not unreasonable. If the couple is in their twenties, or older, they guy normally pays.
You could also consider splitting the cost of the date. One pays for the dinner and the other the movie.
I married now, so all of my money is hers.
-Hyena
2006-12-21 05:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by IronHyena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First couple of dates a guy should treat. After dating for awhile it should then become a 50/50 thing if the woman can afford it.
2006-12-21 05:31:01 · answer #3 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No halvies,on the very 1st date,the guy should def pay for everything. As the dates progress and you both get more aquainted then you can decide to go half on the dates.
2006-12-21 05:41:07 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, without a doubt! Any REAL Gentleman knows that he should always expect to pay on a first date!
2006-12-21 05:37:43 · answer #5 · answered by lincman90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a dirst date, I definitely would pay.
After that.......
If he asks you out, he should pay, period.
If you ask, you pay.
If either of you is a little short on cash, you should be honest enough to tell each other, so you have the opportunity to think about whether or not you want to go Dutch.
2006-12-21 05:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by peter n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always picked up the tab no matter how many times we dated a
guy shows his girl friend one way he cases picking up the tab.
2006-12-21 05:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The rule is: If you ask her to go and you didn't say anything about cost at that time, then you will pay... If she asked you, same rule applies.
2006-12-21 05:35:06 · answer #8 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ME, I WOULD PAY HER WAY IN AND ALSO
GET HER SOMETHING TO EAT, FORGET
HALVES STUFF, IF SHES YOUR LADY, YOU
PAY HER WAY. THE CINEMA COST IS NOTHING.
2006-12-21 05:38:44 · answer #9 · answered by JIMMY L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope... unless previously discussed, the guy should always pay for everything and should expect to do so.
2006-12-21 05:32:06 · answer #10 · answered by jairman2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋