If you are in love with a girl, and you think she is the one for you is she worth fighting for? Now she has feelings for me, but not sure how deep they are, so am I stupid to continue on dating her. When do you say enough is enough and give up on the relationship? I need some help!!!
2006-12-21 05:20:04 · 24 answers · asked by joecool71_3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a relationship is a two way thing. if one doesn't feel the same then its better to move on and you'll find someone one day that will give you the same in return. read tips on love and relationships to help you more on this site
2006-12-21 05:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by Puddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a strong believer in let them go and if it is meant to be than they will come back to you. Love isn’t hard and it isn’t difficult. All people in relationships get into arguments but that is to be expect with two individuals. You just have to make sure that this is right for you. I am taking it that you want to go to the next level or at least want to know that she feels the same way. I think if you separate and let her have sometime to think about how she feels about you especially while she is without you maybe it will help her find her true feelings. But it seems like you are more scared to break up with her because YOU are afraid that you may not get back together and that should be a sacrifice you are willing to make because that will show you that you weren’t meant to be.
2006-12-21 05:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by Tri-trippin-Nelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say love is worth fighting for to a certain extent. I'll fight to protect her if she's attacked, harrassed, ect. But fighting another guy over her, I won't do. I'll naturally defend myself if he attacks. But otherwords she'll need to make a choice if she wants to have the victor. This isn't the midevil times......If she is torn between you and another guy, then tell her to make her choice. If she can't make a choice, then dump her. Basically she's made her choice by her indecision. Don't play "second fiddle" to anyone. You don't want her to treat you bad, and disrespect you and your feelings. Depending on her decision, or indecision, you'll know when enough is enough. There are plenty of other girls/women out there who are just waiting for someone to come along and treat them right. Best of luck to you.
2006-12-21 05:48:16 · answer #3 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 DO YOU REALLY LOVE HER? You need to find out how deep is your love for her. You said she feeling you but is it for real. Maybe test her, ask her questions you and her would know OR buy her a cheap gift from the dollar store (if she pass then buy her a real gift). 2 Ask yourself do I love her for her or is it just for show and does she feel me for me or is it just what I can give her.
3 Always remember your GOOD TIMES (If you had any)
4 If you did all that you could do then JUST LET IT GO-----
IF SHE WAS MEANT FOR YOU SHE WILL COMEBACK OR WILL NEVER LEAVE YOU
2006-12-21 05:42:06 · answer #4 · answered by GLAMBOYANT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rarely is love worth fighting for...come on--we aren't living in a story book romance where "love always finds a way and wins". That is a bunch of crap. You accept the situation for what it is and if you can't then get the h*ll out of it!
2006-12-21 05:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really worth the wait-- If you just settle you'll never know how much you can really Love someone. How Big your heart really can grow!! I met my Husband by pure accident after a getting over a crappy marriage 3 yrs.prior.
2016-05-23 05:40:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
every relationship is worth fighting 4 if u dont fight 4 it then u r stupid
2006-12-21 05:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by LilTee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would give her some space. Maybe once you do that she will come to grip with her feelings and realize that her feelings are deep for you. If she decides that you are not the one for her then you got your answer.
2006-12-21 05:26:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is not for sure so i wouldn't get to attached to her until she made up her mind and love isn't something you should have to fight to keep..... it should be natural and something you both feel equally....... Give her some time and ask her how she feels about you and then you will know... Good Luck
2006-12-21 05:24:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, you need to make sure that she knows how deep your feelings are for her. Then if she doesn't feel the same then you should probably look elsewhere.
2006-12-21 05:24:14 · answer #10 · answered by Gems 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋