I have a boyfriend of 2 years going on 3. I am 20 and he is 26. He was still living at home with his parents due to some medical problems he had/has. But now his dad is getting laid off and they aren't going to be able to keep the house so he has to find somewhere else to live. He doesn't want to move to far from where he lives since it is only like 3 mins from work. He had originally talked about moving in with his friend(who is a guy). Well he mentioned to me the other day that is talked to this women that he works with who is going through a divorce and he said they talked about moving in together. I don't know that I am comfortable with this! What should my response be and how should I handle this? My bf and this women have a very different relationship... they joke about sexual stuff all the time even when I am on the phone with him. What do I do?
2006-12-21 05:16:33 · 10 answers · asked by Help??? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him that you are uncomfortable w/ this. If they have a sexual tension thing going on it could be highly likely that this could evolve. It happens for me that way, a lot. A lot!!!
2006-12-21 05:20:57 · answer #1 · answered by mauiniki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are about to lose your boyfriend...
I have never seen anyone yet, that can keep a room mate with out a sexual relationship, especially when they "joke" about it already...
Its leading up to something and you are going to be out of the picture soon..
Find another boyfriend, he is "over" you now..
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-12-21 13:22:02 · answer #2 · answered by x 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Put your foot down, if he moves in with her.... I guarantee he cant be trusted. I ONCE had a male roomate who I was NOT interested in at all, and he was HAPPILY married but the wife was in the Phillipines... Long story short, he hit on me EVERY SINGLE DAY and even asked me for sex- it was annoying and I eventually kicked him out. But if they are already teasing about sexual stuff.. He cannot be trusted with her. Good luck sweets.
2006-12-21 13:22:51 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't feel comfortable with my BF living with another woman, either. Your BF is 26 years old and should be able to live on his own, anyway.
2006-12-21 13:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by Heather C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about your concerns.. tell him you trust him.. but don't want him to get into any bad situations.. you are uncomfortable with the idea of him living with another single woman.. who he makes sexual jokes with.. why don't the two of you move in together?
2006-12-21 13:23:44 · answer #5 · answered by kady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him immediately. You cannot bear that situation and your boyfriend, I'm afraid, is not thinking about you. How would he feel if you did the same? I also think that they can probably end up in bed, specially because of the sex talk and jokes you mentioned. All my male friends with whom I used to talk about sex went to bed with me.
2006-12-21 13:22:48 · answer #6 · answered by Elsa C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't sound right. If i were you i would be honest with him that this really bothers you and that you feel totally uncomfortable. That is were it will probably be an open discussion. Really, i don't think it would be cool at all for you.
2006-12-21 13:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should a serious talk with him and tell him how u feel.U'll sort this out some way.GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-21 13:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you all three move in together
2006-12-21 13:19:57 · answer #9 · answered by szfr8l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
helllooooo...he moves in with YOU
2006-12-21 13:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋