when i see someone in "love",i can't help but to think...?

Question

i see a bunch of peope all cutsie around school. and i see their myspaces,and they are all like,im in love i love her, shes soo beautiful and i see the girls all like we're happy andwe love each other. i can't help but to notice how happy these couples are. and i thinkto myslf, am i ever going to find someone. i want that kind of attention, someone to talj to late at night, hang out every day,someone who tells me tha im beautiful,and loves me. its getting me kinda deppressed does anyone else feel this way? what can i do, im extremely shy,and whenever i likea guy i kinda pay attention, and hen i finnally get the guts tell him, somethng happens,. i need help!! my new crush is totaly diff. he has long curly hair, and hes a complete gentleman, when i drop a pen or pencil, he picks it upfor me. he kinda punk/skaterish. what should i do? who else feesls this way... no one?..just me?...

Answer 1

myspace is fake. fake fantasy world. 90% of them are lying about their "great life".

From looking at my sisters page you would think she was super popular and had 3 boyfriends chasing her but real life she doesnt...just does that to seem popular and get attention.

dont worry about it.

Answer 2

Haley, you are totally not alone here.

I think it is safe to say that at one point or another everyone has felt like this. The key is to not let it get you down for to long and not to get desperate. It will happen when it happens. Until then be happy with who you are a remember that you are a one, not a half of two.

As for the cutie with the curly hair, talk to him. Ask him to go shopping or go for coffee or do something fun that you are into. The worst he can say is "No Thank-you" but, I am sure you will have him wrapped around you soon enough!

Good Luck!

Answer 3

We all want someone to be there and pick us up when we down. Truthfully, don't push to much. With this guy he does see you and gives notice. Now you just really need to play it cool. Enjoy things for the now. I am a single women who fell for the wrong one only because i was so despirate to have that companion. It did not come out good. You only see the outside of these girls relationships. Do you really know what happens behind the doors?

Answer 4

I feel the same way , I look around ,they hold hands ,flirt ,I want it to ... men come around but my parents do not want me to date until I am 18 ,but they will come around ,it will happen that is what I have to tell my self every day , because I think (WILL I EVER GET MARRIED ,OR BE IN LOVE ) and I have to stop my self ,because there is some one for every one ,they are not leaving ,the planet LOL .:-) So don't feel alone ,many people feel that way ,I know ,my friend is 25 and that is all see can think about .so I hope every thing works out for you in the future ,

Answer 5

dont think you're the only one. i thought i was the only one with a grumpy mom that makes me miserable almost 24/7.
dont look for him, he'll find you.
is it worth being desperate for a guy, finding one, then never getting that responce from him you wanted? no! im actually dating an ex boyfriend, and things are so far good...but people have told me that 2nd times dont work out.
i would try not to seem shy, but dont completely act like you dont like him. if he really starts liking you, he'll make all the moves. until then, find some good girl friends to hang with, and be there to comfort you when you feel lonly.
have a great holiday!

Answer 6

It seems you have a similar problem. Here in England we use Bebo and it seems a lot of my friends are in love with girls. It's an extremely annoying thing especially when they ask you about love. I suggest you read some of the answers on yahoo about confidence and go ask out whoever it is. I am trying this at the moment and so far I think it is working.

Answer 7

yeah i totally know what you mean! I'm over that stage of envying cutesy couples when i see them. I guess I've been through relationships and realized that when i was in a relationship, people would envy me and i wouldn't care about any other couples because i had my own. However since I'm single today, when i look at couple, i think to myself and say how cute, i use to be like that. I can't wait till i find another person. So i don't envy couples as much. Keep in mind that all these cutesy couples you see don't usually work out. I'm guessing these couples you see are in their teens and they are only cutesy because they are infatuated. Couples like that usually don't work out at a young age. As for that gentlemen of yours, why don't u give him a chance? He sounds wonderful. Whats the harm? try to get his screen name and talk to him . best wishes!

Answer 8

sister, would you like to join the "Sergent song_eyes lonely hearts club band'? cuz we are totally sitting in the same boat.
i can't tell you how to handle it, but i can tell you this:
those people 'fall in love' every time they break up with their last boyfriend/girlfriend. do you honestly think that you can 'fall in love' that many times? it's called high school drama. no, it doesn't stop when you get out of high school. god willing, someday you will receive the perfect man. you will not have to be lonely any more.
i have the same problem. i am totally set on never getting married, but when ever i see people like that or watch movies like 'pride and prejudice' i feel really lonely. i watched a boyfriend/ girlfriend couple making ou today beaus they were about to go to separate classes, and they were saying 'goodbye'. but my problem is that i think that if you date in high school, you'll have to handle, 'high school drama'. so i avoid it.
as for the guy you like-- the guy that i have liked for years is alot like that (minus the gentleman thing) but i m ow living like five billion miles away from him.... my heart hurts every day--- and he never even knew i existed.
if you want love, you are either going to have to Step out of your comfort zone and go after someone-- or your going to have to wait until God sends someone along.
shall i pray for you, or would that be too weird? (you don't have to choose me as the 'best answer' too tell me the answer to that question--only if you think that mine is the best answer.)
i hope you find what you are looking for.......

{merry Christmas}

Answer 9

Ive been there.. I recently got out of a relationship and am scared to go back out with him again becuz he hurt me so much but he wants to give it another try but im like whats the point now? why did he leave me in the first place? Anyway, my point is.. i see ppl in love like that too and wonder how they do it. and i keep thinking to myself if i'll ever find someone who will be there for me and love me that much and not leave me.

Answer 10

first your in school those relationship you think are great will more then likely end before graduation... and Myspace is a joke lol...... if you like this boy an he is acting like he likes you then just talk to him or write him a note telling him you like him and would like to hang out and get to know one another... No harm in tryin never know may turn out in your favor....... Better to try and know then not to an and wonder what could have,,,,,

Answer 11

ok u should be releaved to hear this i feel the same way u do so do feel alone it sucks really bad to feel that way and my ex boyfriend i couldnt get over and i hadent had a boy friend for a while and its starting to make me feel depressed too so heres what u can dothis guy u like get to know him more find out his likes and dislikes than if he does nt ask u out than ask him if he would like to hang out see where it goes i hope i helped in some way god bless good luck!!!!!!!!!!