This can't be a good sign?

Question

This is sorta about a relationship, but this is what happened. I think my gf has some really big issues that were given to her some time ago, but these issues get in the way of us having a more serious relationship. I met her for breakfast, told her exactly what I was thinking and how I wanted us to both let go of our pasts. She didn't really respond like I had hoped. But anyways, I am driving home, frustrated and agitated, driving up my street. I said just a little prayer asking that I be given some sort of sign about what I should do. No joke or exaggeration: no more than 2 seconds after that a squirrel ran into the road and I ran over it but didn't flatten it but definitely broke its back and I saw it crawl back off the side of the road. Honestly, I about lost it right then and there. If that's a sign, what do you think it meant?

Answer 1

Our pasts are what create in us who we are,fears,ways in which we love,ways we fight,One needs to deal with the past sometimes to move on.Otherwise to pretend one has no pain in the past they keep reliving to try to resolve.So maybe she needs some counseling,if you love her you will not walk away.If you don't love her then by all means walk away,the squirrel is coincidence.You seem terrified by this relationship,why don't you decide what you want,instead of looking for signs.

Answer 2

Sorry it was not a sign. But perhaps listening to the Squirrel Song by The White Stripes might help.
good luck

Answer 3

Leave the sign thing alone it is not how God operates.
The word in James says if any man lack wisdom let him ask of God that giveth to all men liberally.
The squirrel made a bad judgment and ran in front of you.Period.

Answer 4

The sign is when we're angry I judgment and vision is cloudy. You was so mad that you were not able to pay attention to the road. We get caught up in our own little world and what we're going through sometimes, that we zone out the "real" world. Next time just say this serenity. "God help me understand the things I dont, and accept the things I can't change". I cut it short just to cover the parts you need. Works for me evry time I get upset with others, or their words. It'll help to ease your mind, until you're able to speak to the person again, or atleast until you calm down. Dont worry it happens to best of us.

Answer 5

aww u killed a squirrel =[ i wouldnt take that as a sign, even if u do u could take it different ways, one being that this is just a bump in the road and u need to keep going and trying, or you could say that its time to move on and find another squirrel.

imo, i would call this a coincidence.

Answer 6

Did you get out and help the squirrel or did you leave it to suffer? Time will tell if you and your gf can work things out, but I can't stop thinking of the squirrel.

Answer 7

I don't think it was a sign so much as a squirrel just crossing the street

Answer 8

It's not a sign it's coincidence.

if that haddn't have happened something else would have either within minutes or hours of your question and you would have used that as your "sign".

You were looking for one and so you got one but it could have been anything else. A song on the radio, a bird circling ahead. anything. Tese would have been there if you were looking for a sign or asked the question or not.

Answer 9

I don't know much about signs cauz I've never had 1 but that's what it sounds like, I think that god is tryin to tell u

"If somethin bad happends to U to just keep going"

Answer 10

Doesn't sound like a sign to me. It sounds like you were driving while you were distraught.