I met him through my father (funny, I know). We're both musician's. I sing- he plays guitar. We're in a band together. One night, he leaned over and just kissed me! I was totally shocked! I mean this guy is a Doctor! If he does something-he means it! I reminded him that I was still married. I stayed at his house, down stairs-in the guest room- alone-that night(too much wine) and left before he woke up. After that he didn't really talk about what happened that night and we continued w/ our rehersals and our show. About 2 weeks went by and I couldn't stop thinking about what had happened. So I called him. I asked him why he kissed me. His reply was "impulse", "I was attracted to you in several ways" and "I felt bad about what you are going through". He also said "we should spend some time together to get to know each other". I adore this man, but I can't tell if he likes me or not? Sexually I'm sure. It's been 3 days and no call. Should I call him? Or should I just call it carzy!
2006-12-21 04:52:40 · 22 answers · asked by luvnlife 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Call him, your not a baby, he knows what he is getting into and so do you. Just go slow..... like no boinking for like months. This is going to ruin your band.
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2016-04-29 21:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its crazy at all.Im 25 and my hubby is 42.We have been together for 7 years andwe dated for 4 years because I wanted to be sure things were right.You will never know until you try so take the leap and call.If he is a Doctor then Im sure he stays busy.See where the reationship takes you.I have been and still am pleasantly surprised that my hubby and I have so much in common.Make sure that if you do start a eationship that it is built on a solid foundation.Truly get to know him.Date,Date, date!!GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-21 04:59:25 · answer #3 · answered by hotchocolatecherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until your divorce is final, then call and tell him you are free to start spending some time with him. Never mind the age difference; he sounds like a good man!
2006-12-21 04:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by AnnieD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably attracted to him because you see him as a fatherly figure, and you're especially vulnerable because you're going through a divorce right now. I'd say that you should try to let it go. If he's really into you, he'll call you. If not, then it's probably for the best anyway.
2006-12-21 04:57:07 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you're not, you're merely after a meal ticket. i should think that the craziness should be credited to the good doctor for wanting to burden himself with three brats that aren't his. does he work in a mental institution and has perhaps been somehow affected by his patients, but it's probably the too much wine thing!
2006-12-21 05:02:59 · answer #6 · answered by Troubled Joe(the ghost of) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and get to know him, but first, can you save the marriage that you're already in? If you can, save it, but if you can't get to know him. But make sure he really loves you, and doesn't just want to have sex with you. Have him meet the kid and see how he is with them. Don't have sex with him until you marry him (if you marry him). Does he make enough money to support you? Ask a bunch of questions to yourself before calling him. Good luck and God bless you.
2006-12-21 05:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by dragon_girl441 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it Girl!! Ask him out. See where it goes from there. Older guys may not seem as 'enthusiastic' [aka desperate] as the younger ones. Thats just maturity showing. Let us know how it turns out! Just dyin 2 know!
2006-12-21 05:42:13 · answer #8 · answered by ISLAND GIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... sounds like to me this guy is a complete player. He's not being totally honest about his feelings towards you. Possibly, he just wants to bed you. Sorry for being blunt. This guy is a complete creep. I wouldn't waste my time thinking about him and move on.
2006-12-21 05:00:35 · answer #9 · answered by mitchchan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is totally up to you, there's no age limit on love. If you and him both think you could be compatible maybe you should try it as long as your free. This is all corresponding to you being free.
I don't condone affairs so,
2006-12-21 04:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋