2006-12-21 04:50:12 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do what makes u happy.
No one else will be living your life with him but u.
2006-12-21 04:52:22 · answer #1 · answered by Curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've been going out with someone long enough for him to ask you to marry him, and your family has yet to meet him? How very strange.
What is the reason that your family dislikes blacks? Is there any member of your family that you can talk to about this? How about a family friend or the minister of your church? Can anyone help smooth the way for introductions?
2006-12-21 04:53:45 · answer #2 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't marry him unless you're willing to be isolated from your family. This isn't usually something families get over, and will only be worse when you have children that your family desides to ignore. introduce him to your family and pray that you think things are much worse than they are. Hopefully your family will be the type that don't like blacks in general, but think he's okay (at the very least). if not, don't marry him unless your truly willing to "forsake all others"
2006-12-21 05:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by smm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 09:22:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels right to you. If you want to marry this man, you are a big girl & it's your decision. Talk to your family about why you love him, and if they love you, they will respect your decision.
2006-12-21 04:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok your family is racist, you are not, good!!!, if you really love this person, just marry him, but don't do it just to annoy your family, remember that he has feelings.
2006-12-21 04:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by CCH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know your family matters to you but you have to think of yourself as well,,, your family will truly understand you if you really love that guy. try also to ask your family why they don't like balck people. there's nothing wrong with that..
2006-12-21 05:09:39 · answer #7 · answered by mcbeth007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well hel!, if you love him marry him! why the he!l would you care what your family thinks? follow your heart hun!
2006-12-21 04:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by Victoria C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur jus posotng questions now for the hell of it jus to get answers cas ur other ? ur bf was cheating on you
r u cheating on him?
what r u on??
which question is true nd which ? is flase
2006-12-21 04:58:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him,marry him.if your family loves you,they will respect you and your decision.
2006-12-21 04:57:22 · answer #10 · answered by dodgeball371 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋