well continuin on, she's also crazy jealous and of course im sure this is because of when i cheated on her back n the day, to this day she's jealous of everything where i go, who i chill with, i mean anything she can possible turn into an issue she does, .basically the biggest issue i have with her is like ok yesterday was her birthday n the eve b4 or whatever i wanted to go out to eat with my friends and she just kept askin me when i was comin home cuz she wanted me home b4 12 u kno so i could b there when it was officially her birthday so i come home n we're talkn n what not n then later on in the day i talk to her b4 she goes to work n that was at like 1 and then i didnt talk to her for the rest of the day, so i mean its like im gettin what i want cuz i want distance but its like it pisses me off that she can go and blow up my phone for ne reason cuz u kno she claims that she's in love with me n what not but when i go n call her to c how her bday is goin i get no answer its bs
2006-12-21 04:49:15 · 18 answers · asked by confused- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
break up w/ her, easiest thing to do,
2006-12-21 04:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are having this much of an issue it may just be better to cut your loses and move on.Its not worth staying in a relationship where there is no trust and you or/and your partner are unhappy.It takes away from the substance of the relationship when there is no trust.If you love her and she loves you maybe get counceled or try to work it out between your selves but if you are both not on the same page then it may be best to call it quits for right now
2006-12-21 12:54:35 · answer #2 · answered by hotchocolatecherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think is going to work out. It seems to me that your not the caring great listener type of boyfriend. She sounds like she needs attention and passion from a boyfriend in order for her to have good self-stem. So break up, don't answer her calls and if she continues call the POLICE or ignore her for a week so she could stop harassing and gets the picture.
2006-12-21 12:56:43 · answer #3 · answered by LIZA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although you messed up by cheating, try to determine if this is her nature or if she strictly has a problem with it. If there is going to be any kind of future for you two. The "cheating" issue will have to be worked through first. Without trust, you have nothing.
2006-12-21 12:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by jlynna10 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she's your ex. Why are you guys still hanging out ? Second you cheated on her you stupid sh*t. Now you want to sit back like a jerk and call her all kinds of names. I hope one day when you fall head over heals for a girl she cheats on you left and right so you see how it feels. Then I hope she calls you names to everybody you know. Dude, you created the mess now clean it up and stop being so damn selfish.
2006-12-21 12:53:15 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey this is the way she is and this is also a glimpse of what is coming, are you willing to go thru day by day listening to chatty kathy take some time to find a Real Woman, and she is not it. So everytime she can't get her way oh well you are going to pay hell!
2006-12-21 13:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by Conrey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THe reason she is all over you is because she dont trust you she doesnt trust you because u cheated on her and u've lost her trust. now if u keep on going out wit your friends shes leslikely going to turst you. You have to show her she could trust you because if u dont prove that to her shes never going to trust you n you guys are never going to get along but dont break up wit her u must luv her if ur still wit her its just a phase in life....Things will work out! Trust.
2006-12-21 12:59:08 · answer #7 · answered by psycho_latin_chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 questions. Why are you with someone that doesn't trust you? Are you sure you are not a woman?
You are more of a drama queen then any woman I know. Stop cheating and find someone that trusts you.
2006-12-21 12:53:35 · answer #8 · answered by RayCATNG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha- you love the attention she gives you and you love to complain about it- because if you didnt, you would be cutting all your ties with her- unless u got a baby, but then your question should be something child related, not this.. high school centered crap.
2006-12-21 12:52:43 · answer #9 · answered by allaboutme_333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
waaaaaa waaaaaaaaaaa you either grow up and have a woman as a g/f or set her free its that simple keep her or set her free and keep hanging with the boys
2006-12-21 12:54:36 · answer #10 · answered by shewontletmefunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kill the *****!! sounds like the realtionship is heading down. Cut your losses now and just break up with her
2006-12-21 12:58:07 · answer #11 · answered by nuke81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋