ok so i am in love with this guy but he going to the army and we haven't talked in like 3 months and we just recently started to talk again and i have found out how he really fells about me. he says that he likes me alot but he diesn't knw what to do about the army and he said that he didn't want it to come between us! what should i do??
2006-12-21 04:47:32 · 5 answers · asked by lizzie_08 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be his friend while he's in the Army, talk on the phone, email, write and soon the both of you can decide on what to make of the frienship. if it's meant to be then it'll be.
Mom of B & D
2006-12-21 04:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by Mom of B & D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got a lotta friends in the army and who r in relationships, i mean if you think that you're strong enough to be without him while he's in the army i say go for it, but there are a lotta temptations in the army as well and while you're home, so its just a matter of will and how much u really want to be together, no long distance relationship is easy but if you trust him and he trusts you then i dont see why it cant work out.
But thats just my opinion. Good Luck if you decide to b together
2006-12-21 12:56:10 · answer #2 · answered by confused- 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm glad that he likes you. Going to the army is not an easy decision for either of you. But if you really love him, you have to support him in everything he does. If he really wants to go then let him go. If he likes you as much as he says he does you both can wait it out. I know it will be hard as heck but you can do it. Love surpasses all things and distance is one of them. Just make sure you both talk about it and know that it's going to be hard but that you'll wait for each other. Good Luck!
2006-12-21 12:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by yleemoreno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Army owns him now...you'll both have to adjust for that fact. But if you're in love with each other, the time you spend apart while he's off Army-ing should be worth waiting through to be with each other again...
2006-12-21 12:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by Nasubi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, nothing.
Stay faithful and wait. If you have financial concerns, marry him. I don't see the problem.
2006-12-21 12:51:43 · answer #5 · answered by stn1225 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋