ok i have been going out these guy off and on for the last year! one of my friends is really good friends with him and he didn't know we got back to gather and he was talking to him and my boyfriend told him that he went out with a gurl from a place we went to gang out togather alot and i was talking to that person the other night and he told me. what should i do. should i ask him about and see what he say or what because we have went though this befroe and i can not take it any more and it is messing me up in side :<
2006-12-21 04:43:08 · 19 answers · asked by cp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES!! you need to ask him!! He thinks he is running some kind of game on you!! Please believe you need to forget him!! I mean yall should stay together instead of goin on anf off....he juss wants you and every other gurl out there@@@ you seem like you deserve better!@! ALL GIRLS DESERVE BETTER@@
2006-12-21 04:46:48 · answer #1 · answered by lyssa a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Last I heard, if you're going out with someone "off and on", that means you're not married or comitted. It was an "off" time. How can he cheat on you if he's not comitted to you? Same goes for you. No commitment equals no cheating. You're DATING ! That doesn't mean you're married or engaged. Just DATING ! Until it goes further than that, you don't have any ties on the man and he has none on you. If it's "messing you up inside", find yourself a boyfriend who is willing to commit and have a relationship with you. This one isn't and you'll be beating yourself up for nothing. Know when to move on, honey. I think it's time. Godloveya.
2006-12-21 04:53:16 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason to ask him. You already know everything you need to know. The fact that you guys have been off and on for a year should have clued you in long ago. If a guy really likes you he makes sure that its always on and never off. Keep that in mind. Dont you think every time you guys were off that he was hanging out with another girl ? Drop him.
2006-12-21 04:50:03 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 09:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you i wouldn't believe the friend sometimes the ones' that you think are your friend really aren't i would ask him not saying he'll tell the truth, but wait and see it's best to catch the guy in the act good luck peace and blessings
2006-12-21 04:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by outspoken_princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like I always say, be True TO YOURSELF!!! If this is really bothering you then tell him! Ask him what is it that he wants in your relationship. If you're looking for something serious then obviously he's not. So make sure you know what you want, and what he wants, if it's not the same thing, even if it hurts, you need to let him GO!
2006-12-21 04:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by yleemoreno 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy wants his cake and to eat it too, and as long as you are going to hang around the corner for him he'll keep it up. On again off again relationships will never work out in the end.
You are too young to deal with this crap. Don't tie yourself down unless he's really worth it. Go out and enjoy life...
2006-12-21 04:48:30 · answer #7 · answered by hjfr27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend is really good friends with one of your friends, why would your boyfriend tell him about messing with another girl especially if he knew there was a possibility of you finding out?
2006-12-21 05:20:05 · answer #8 · answered by Gems 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u guys are together wen he told his friend he was cheating then dont go out wit him agen and if you guys were on the off stage then its not cheating
2006-12-21 04:48:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're an on and off relationship. No commitment. Re-evaluate what you are looking for and accept him and his behavior or move on...I vote move on.
2006-12-21 04:46:30 · answer #10 · answered by father of 4 husband of 1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋