Confusing situation, I'm not a homewrecker or so I thought. How can I tell if she is attracted to me when I ask her, and her response is that she cant give an answer to that right now because she "doesn't want to get my hopes up." She's concerned that she doesn't want me to spend my time waiting for her relationship to end. Is there any indication that she's attracted to me in there?
2006-12-21 04:37:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah you're all right in that I have no right to sabbotage her relationship. I guess I was just curious as to whether she was attracted to me. Too curious you might say.
2006-12-21 04:45:44 · update #1
Yes, she's attracted to you. Because of it, she's very confused right now.
What you don't want to do, is pressure her to end a relationship she's otherwise happy in. That will only make her confusion worse, and she will hate you for it.
You can still be friends with this woman, but you'll need to go and find your own girlfriend. That way, there is no pressure on either of you. It won't work out any other way.
2006-12-21 04:45:52 · answer #1 · answered by peter n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, definately not. If she was attracted to you; when you asked, it probably ruined it.
You are her back up plan, she might use you to scratch her ego if things happen to go sour with her relationship.
Instead of asking in the future assume "yes" allways and go from there.
2006-12-21 04:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by Akshun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants you around as a friend only. Dont sabotage her current relationship, maybe that guy really luvs her. Hey dude look for someone not attached.
2006-12-21 04:42:17 · answer #3 · answered by Jakes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont wait around for something that might never happen. better to keep dating others and if she becomes available later and you are also then see what happens. read tips on dating and more to help you better on this site
2006-12-21 04:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by Puddy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She may be attracted to you "BUT" She is obviously committed to her relationship. I would stay far away!!!
2006-12-21 04:42:42 · answer #5 · answered by daydreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe :) :) :)
2006-12-21 04:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by sexton 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋