Alrite im using my friends e mail cuz i dont have one rite now, but neways, i was dating this chick and at first everything was good you kno we were friends, and then after awhile i was the first to cheat i was young, n then after like 7years of on and off she goes and finds another bf for 2 n half years n then he cheats on her, and then all of sudden she wants me back in her life for whatever reason, n now to this day i dont want to b with her, i dont want nething to do with it nemore you kno, but now the whole relationship now between us has just been getting worse and worse cuz she just doesnt get it that i dont want to b with her nemore and anytime i tell her that she pulls the death card on me, i mean i seriously just cant do this nemore i mean even tho' shes' been sayin that for7 years now i cant just ignore that you kno cuz what if she really does it then what. I just wish i knew how to handle this cuz everytime i try and tell her how i feel she just pulls the death card.
2006-12-21 04:33:52 · 4 answers · asked by confused- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what's "pulls the death card"? If she threatens suicide, call the police and have them take her to the hospital for a mandatory 72 hour observation. And STOP TALKING TO HER.
2006-12-21 04:36:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats really immature of her. why would she want your love if you dont love her back? I mean seriously ask her what good would it be for u to say "okay fine" if she KNEW it was only bc u dont want her to kill herself?
anyways her life is not your responsibility...this girl is very dependant and has some issues. Tell someone you trust that she has said this to you. Her parents, a teacher, your parents, a counselor something. If it is someone she knows, they can keep an eye on her.
Otherwise a professional probably has dealt \with this thing before, and can help.
don't let her pull the death threat on u...its probably just htat...a manipulation and a threat.
2006-12-21 04:37:40 · answer #2 · answered by sunkist3122 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stongly recommend her to the best therapist in your area. Have a talk with her tell her how you feel and let her talk. go from their. If she was gonna kill herself she wouldve did it by now. the girl needs help. If you got it like that you have females threatening to kill theirself over you you must have it going on if so my number is 555- #$%$ just kidding. But seriously talk to her.
2006-12-21 04:40:22 · answer #3 · answered by meka g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well if she was going to kill herself she would have done it by now. She knows that works with you so she keeps it up. My husband use to do that to me. Tell me he would just kill himself and then our lives would be better and stuff like that. They are just trying to get the symphathy from you. One day when he said he was going to kill himself I looked in the eye and said ok go ahead just go do it and get it over with because I am tired of talking about it with you. He just looked at me and said I would never do that. She isn't going to do it but sometimes you have to use reverse pcychology on them. Act like you don't care what she does. She will get bored with it and move on.
2006-12-21 04:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by Ask Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋