ok well he's leavin in June and i'm wondering should we stay together or go our ways and see what happens when he gets back. We really love each other and we've been through so much with each other. We've also been together for 2years and 7 months so what should i do?
2006-12-21 04:30:42 · 22 answers · asked by outspoken_princess 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm not saying that i feel as though i can't be faithful to him becuase i know i can i love that dude he's my heart my everything it's just that we've never missed a day talking to each other and it's going to be hard. I don't know if i'm going to be able to deal with it
2006-12-21 04:43:33 · update #1
It sounds like you really love this guy, I think you should stay together, There is no saying that you cant go visit him, Or that the 2 of you cant call one another, My husband is over in Albania right now and has been there for a year. YOu just have to know what you want in your life in order to decide. BUt Yes most def stay together!
2006-12-21 04:35:04 · answer #1 · answered by Zog 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, you shouldn't stay together and here's why. The truth of the matter is even though you have been through so much together he is about to go through an experience like no other and he will do that on his own because you won't be there. He is going to change and the reality is you will probably grow apart. Sure, he will call you when he's lonely because he needs that support but you will find it will be so much different when you two are together because the experiences he shared without you. I know that's not very sensitive but it's the truth I spent 12 years in the service and experienced what your asking and have seen more times than I can count. If you decide to try and stick it out be strong and good luck.
2006-12-21 12:45:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should follow your heart and do what it tells you to do. If you really love each other, you will both wait. Time tells everything, the old saying " Absence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder" may be true. If your both young then being apart may be just the thing to let you know if you really do love each other. I am sure you will miss him for a while when he leaves and he will miss you. Maybe you should both try dating other people during this time you are apart, if you find someone else, then it wasn't meant to be, same for him. This doesn't always mean that the two of you can't always find your way back to each other when he does come home. Good Luck to both of you.
2006-12-21 12:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by jlynncogbill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Military relationships are very difficult. It is not uncommon at all that people break up before they enter the service. However, you two have been together a long time. Which deserves consideration. There is a good chance that after boot he will ask you to marry him so you two can be together....as long distance relationships are difficult.
I broke up with my BF when I went in. It was the wisest choice I made. It was being in the Navy I realized I wasn't ready for a serious relationship at that time.
Frankly, I think you should break up. At least until he reaches his first permanent duty station.
2006-12-21 12:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y would the Army break you up? Sounds silly, he's going to need the letters and support. If you loved him you wouldn't even ask him that, do him a favor and break up now, save him money on a Christmas present for you and stamps later. Get a life and go support some ghetto lover you probably already have
2006-12-21 12:35:14 · answer #5 · answered by bridgette c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would totally say to stay with him! I have a friend who is leaving in June as well. He's not a boyfriend but they need lots of support! Plus why on earth would you break up with someone just because they are going to serve your country?? Stick to him and give him all the support he needs! you two sound cute!!!
2006-12-21 12:38:05 · answer #6 · answered by lova_gal5511 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long will he be gone 4?If you really love him then stay with him because he is going to need you and he will be broken hearted if you break up with him and he migth not be focus so dont leave him .I think yall need to talk and decide on what to do.
2006-12-21 12:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by Riyonna D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's up to you whether to stay or not. If you've been together for so long and love each other very much then I say -- yes. Stay together.
2006-12-21 12:40:49 · answer #8 · answered by okailie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are even THINKING of getting rid of this poor guy, do it now. Don't give him false hopes, just to let him down. If you love him so much, you would be thinking and waiting for the next time you will meet (after he leaves). Instead your thoughts are of breaking up, already, and he hasn't even left yet! You have alot of serious thinking to do, and NOT of yourself.
2006-12-21 12:36:36 · answer #9 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him, why would you break up? My sister is in Iraq right now, they need support over there. If you really love him, don't send him away with a broken heart.
2006-12-21 12:34:31 · answer #10 · answered by Jinny E 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋