iam of school a lot because of M.E and ibs my pse teacher is been very nosey and not very understanding she keeps asking very personal questions about me and always saying shes going to involve other people im upset because i feel so ill, i go to school for half days but im still so tired, im scared to go all the time because i get so ill
2006-12-21 04:05:37 · 16 answers · asked by sara 2 in Health ➔ Other - Health
my consultant has wrote and to the head of my year he didnt do anything
2006-12-21 04:20:03 · update #1
i was ill before she asked me questions just to let people know im asking what to do about the teacher not my illness
2006-12-21 04:22:34 · update #2
You have ME, there is nothing anyone can say about it...they just have to accept the fact you have less energy than other people your age......what are these teachers? Nazis?
2006-12-21 04:08:54 · answer #1 · answered by Scatman John 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree that your parents need to contact the school and complain. The teacher should be ashamed to be treated like this with you being so sick.
I also wanted to give you some information that you should look at and share with your parents. This may be unrelated to what you're going through, but you should at least take a look at it.
They're starting to recommend that people with IBS, or IBS-like symptoms be tested for celiac disease, which is an intolerance to gluten (wheat, rye, barley and oats). A lot of people with celiac were misdiagnosed as having IBS for years. (18 years for me). It takes an average of 11 years for a person with celiac to be diagnosed.
Here's a webpage by the National Institutes of Health on celiac -
http://digestive.niddk.nih.gov/ddiseases/pubs/celiac/
And another from the Mayo Clinic -
http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/celiac-disease/DS00319
If that starts sounding familiar here are a couple of message boards for people with celiac and other gluten intolerances.
http://www.glutenfreeforum.com
http://www.celiacforums.com
You can also be intolerant to other common foods and get the symptoms you are describing. Soy, corn, eggs, yeast, dairy, etc. You may want to think about keeping a food/symptoms journal and see if you can identify the culprit(s). It may not "fix" anything, but if you figure out you feel worse when you eat eggs, for example, not eating eggs may make you feel just a little better. It's worth looking into.
I hope you feel better soon.
Nancy
2006-12-21 17:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but there is no way that a concerned (or nosy, your pick) is causing all of this stress in your life. If you're not able to attend schools because of his/her questions then you've got troubles that run a lot deeper.
When you get into your first job, the pressures will make this professor's questions seem simple. If you can't handle this, then you will REALLY crash and burn.
I'm betting that she is simply being concerned about you, since you are obviously struggling. Her questions are not meant to hurt you, but to help you.
I'd suggest going to a therapist, psychologist, etc as soon as you can. You're not gonna last until the end of the semester right now. You probably need to be hospitalized in the stress clinic.
2006-12-21 04:18:02 · answer #3 · answered by geek49203 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I had the same problem in high school. Smile big and tell your teacher, "let me get back to you on that as soon as I get approval from your supervisor to answer." And mean it. Go to the principal or supervisor and keep your word. Get back to that teacher with your answer. It is unethical for a teacher to ask any student personal questions.
2006-12-21 04:27:44 · answer #4 · answered by gone from here too 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just think the teacher doesn't believe that you have chronic fatigue. Your teacher knows why you are out. Talk to an administrator and tell them how the teacher is making you feel. They should be able to sort something out with the teacher.
2006-12-21 04:19:14 · answer #5 · answered by mailler_mike 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was a little difficult to read, due to the grammar and punctuation obstacles, but I think that I understand some of your concern.
As a teacher's aide, I take a personal interest in our students. It is important to us that our students are feeling and looking their best in order to perform their best work. School IS work, for students. It is also work for the teachers.
Part of that work, is for us to make a positive difference in your life. We truly want our students to grow everyday and prepare for the challenges ahead in high school and college.
Your teacher may very well be looking out for your best interest by asking questions about you. She may be interested if you are eating breakfast, getting enough sleep and exercising everyday. These 3 things are not just suggestions, but an absolute necessity EVERYDAY in order to perform at your best. If you are tired at school, you may be missing one of these important elements in your day.
Please, please take this self test. Only you can grade yourself on this test.
Try to make yourself get to sleep earlier, just for one night. Then, wake up a bit earlier than you did the day before. Have a good solid breakfast. After you have breakfast, clean up/freshen up for a great new day! This will give you a greater perspective on school and more energy than you had yesterday...I PROMISE!
Let me know your results. I will pray for your success.
God bless you
2006-12-21 04:28:28 · answer #6 · answered by joe_on_drums 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get her on her own and tell her how you feel. She probably thinks shes doing you a favour by including you. If that does not work ask your mum to talk to the head of year or the head teacher. I hope you start feeling better soon;
2006-12-21 04:08:45 · answer #7 · answered by huggz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Teachers need to be careful about the questions they ask their students. Some personal questions are not appropriate for teachers to be asking. If you are uncomfortable about the things she's asking you, discuss your discomfort with your parents, and let them handle her.
2006-12-21 04:15:57 · answer #8 · answered by lynda_is 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents and let them deal with it. Leave it all to your parents. Tell them how you feel about the teacher.
My parents would go to the school and have a word with the teacher. In other words my parents would have told the teacher where to go.
2006-12-21 06:46:21 · answer #9 · answered by 2dog 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well get a note from your mom or doctor and let the main person in your school who deals with that sort of stuff know, and tell her it is your personal information and it is none of her bussiness to know and all she needs to know is you have a note from your doctor or mom and that you do not have to disclose your personal information to her. But say it in a nice way.
2006-12-21 04:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by Syrinthia C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋