How should i start talk with any girl which will further help me to come out of this problem?
2006-12-21 03:58:23 · 12 answers · asked by ricky_9607 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just think them as friends and dont think of having sex by saying hello..
they wont be rude to u if u would be nice to them..
try it.. i used to be the same way..then i started talking to them on the phone first as it saves u with the expression thing..once u r confirtable..go personal and public
2006-12-21 04:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by Inquistive_man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best solution to your problem is to be yourself. I know it sounds easier said than done, but I'm suggesting to just get to know the girl before you jump headlong into any relationship. Start out as friends and let everything else unfold from there. Ask her how she's doing, what she likes etc etc. My advice is to look for a girl you can be comfortable around with -- don't try to impress someone too much that you have to compromise who you are.
Chances are there are a number of girls who go for the slightly awkward guys, and I know that as a fact.
2006-12-21 04:10:20 · answer #2 · answered by okailie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, (ANS) Your girlfriend sounds like a wonderful woman with a very open minded & attitude towards loving and sexuality. So, yes! she is special and her openness is very refreshing. However this presents you with an incredible opportunity to explore your own sexuality together with a loving partner, perhaps your shyness & fears are mainly down to having never been presented with such a special set of circumstances. The main thing I would say is to always try to allow yourself to enjoy all the sex play (foreplay) sex play is just that intimate play for adults. Try to enjoy pleasing your partner, the more you give her the more you receive back too i.e. giving is receiving when it comes to sex play. I think your lucky to have such a demonstrative sexually assertive girlfirend, I think a partner like this is many mens fantasy. **Yes! exploring each others bodies is part of the joy of developing a good sexual relationship, finding out what turns her on and what turns you on. **Watching each other masturbate can be an incredibly arousing experience. **No! No! No! your NOT at all stupid to feel the way you do, its just so new & unfamiliar to you. But the more you can trust yourself & your partner, the more you go with the flow of the experience the better. Its only when we get self conscious that awkwardness can get in the way. **The way to be more confident sexually & in your own body is to find out what you do and don't like in sex play. Having a physical activity or sports training might help you feel more confident bodily, such as working out in the gym, circuit training, swimming,etc. **DON'T focus on trying to keeping her, or loosing her, or trying not to think in terms of ownership of a partner (girlfriend), we all feel some degree of anxiety around our partners or jealously its very common in deed. But the more a relationship is a happy one, with a good friendship & sex life at its bed rock the more secure it becomes. DON'T worry so much, just be yourself. Best Regards Ivan
2016-05-23 05:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing, goto a bar or something (if your old enough, otherwise somewhere else where people your age hang out).
pick the most buitiful girl you can find.
tell yourself, 'ok, now i'm going to practice getting rejected, i know for a fact that she wont want to be with me at all.'
then go up to her, and ask to goto a movie or something together.
you already know exacly what your going to say because you planned it out befor hand, and you already know your going to be rejected. so no pressure at all, for anything in the slightest. do that a few times, and after each, think about how you felt about each time...
2006-12-21 04:03:07 · answer #4 · answered by Junior1544 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just walk upto a girl and tell her that ur a shy person and wanna strike a conversation, coz shes very beautiful......
thats it dude she'll make sure you are shy to all other girls except her,,, she'll keep u for life....
take my word for it !!!! HAPPY HUNTING !!!
2006-12-21 09:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by mr saint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don;t have to talk to a girl to tell them how you feel instead write a poem or draw a picture of her and tell her how you feel also tell hert that your shy most girls are shy to and need someone to relate to best of luck
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2006-12-21 20:04:07 · answer #7 · answered by Ashok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the answers to all of your problems, but I'm too shy to tell you!!!!!!!
2006-12-21 04:04:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her by a letter and then she will start talking with u n u will 4get ur shynessd
2006-12-21 16:25:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is really hard talking to someone we like but that is only a beginning. keep talking than nothing.
2006-12-21 04:03:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋