2006-12-21 03:58:07 · 47 answers · asked by Rebel Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No because a relationship is based on mutual attraction...
2006-12-21 03:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when I see this question i wonder at the feelings. If a man has feelings for another woman you should totally not stick around. But remember if you love someone you have to accept their past. People may create some pretty powerful bonds that just can't be broken. A perfect example of this is the feelings a man has for his ex-wife and mother of his child. He doesn't love her in any romantic way but he will always love her - you know what I mean? So, what feelings are we talking about. The best advise I can tell you is never take a second seat to anyone, though you can never demand to have the only seat. Good luck.
2006-12-21 04:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have feelings for this man, only stay until you can deal with getting out of the relationship and know that you do deserve to be #1. It's understandable that sometimes we just have to play these things out regardless of being hurt or not.
2006-12-21 04:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by Nicki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how strong your feelings for that man are. If you think its true love, I'd stay with him and see how things work out. But if he cant get over that other girl, then you probably dont mean as much to him as he means to you, so maybe you should leave him.
2006-12-21 04:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are these "feelings" he has for the other girl? If it's akin to love, I suggest you should move on because it's not fair to either of you to stay in the relationship you're having right now. If it's akin to friendship or something like that, then no, unless he does something that you strongly disapprove of with that girl.
I strongly suggest you to talk to him about this before making any permanent decision. If it's a misunderstanding, it'll clear up, but you really should talk to him about it before making any rash decisions (does he really have feelings for this girl? etc etc).
2006-12-21 04:20:29 · answer #5 · answered by okailie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like to play Russian roulette?? that is what you are doing---Will he stay?? will he go?? What is the use?? Tooo many fish in the sea to get a flounder (bottom dweller) Everyone who is a decent person and knows how to be respectful to others deserves the same in return
2006-12-21 04:03:22 · answer #6 · answered by skizzle-d-wizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! There are plenty of fish in the sea. Don't waste your time with the mind games. If you feel you must, however, make him go to couples' counseling with you. If it works, you've got your man. If not, at least you'll know you did the right thing dumping his sorry butt.
2006-12-21 04:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by Mr. Taco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow him space to sort these feelings out or make him give you a explanation of what are his intentions with these feelings.
Feelings are nothing we all have feelings but the intention is what really counts.
He owes you that much unless it was understood in the beginning that you & him were only pleasure mates.
2006-12-21 04:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by CeCe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will this man act upon his feelings?
A lot of people have feelings for more then one person at a time, but will never act upon them, especially if he is happy and content.
If you do not think he will act upon them then stay with him.
2006-12-21 03:59:53 · answer #9 · answered by ceresia_blade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't. I'm too possesive. I want all of man...mind, body, soul. The soul and mind are the most important part of all. If he's into someone else, they've got the most important part and all you have is the body. what good is a body without the soul?
2006-12-21 04:00:24 · answer #10 · answered by lilmisstickletoo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if he has feelings for someone else he will dump you if the other girl becomes interested. You need to have a talk with him....teling him if he can't be with just you then you both need to move on. Life's too short to be wasting your time.
2006-12-21 04:01:44 · answer #11 · answered by DNA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋