if sex offenders can't be around children then how can i have a child with the man that i love?

Answer 1

You need to think about the child you want to have. If this man is truly a sex offender then the chance that he will violate one of his own children is high. You and him both need to get professional help.

Answer 2

I would take several things into consideration. At the time of the offense, if it was a situation that the person was 19 years old and was with a girl with an ID that said she was 19. After they had sexual relations, he then finds out the parents are pressing charges because the girl really was 15 years old and the girl had a fake ID. Then it might not bother me to have children with this man. I actually know someone that this happened to and now he has to register as a sex offender.

However if the man was someone that deliberately sexually assaulted a child, I would not want to have children with that person. A sex offender are highly likely to assault their own children as well as others. They also have a tendency of being emotionally, mentally and abusive towards their families. Do you really want to subject your own child to that?

After taking into consideration of what the stipulation of the offense, that would help me decide if I would be with that man. Personally, I feel that people who prey on children and hurt them should not be around children at all and should be put away where they can never hurt another innocent child again.

Answer 3

Knowing the effects that that kind of abuse has on someone. Well I think if you know he is a sex offender and you have a child with him and put your child in that danger you are just as sick as he is and should be locked up with him. Get a new man honey all is is gonna do is have sex with you and wish you were a child. Don't do it. Get help and get out

Answer 4

I try to be as non-judgemental as I possibly can... but if you are seriously considering KNOWINGLY bringing a child into the world by a sex offender... either you aren't wrapped too tight, or you are unbelievably selfish. Most people that end up in situations like that don't realize what they've gotten themselves into until its too late. And once they find out, if they're smart and strong enough they would literally do ANYTHING to get themselves out of it, just to protect thier child. But here you are.... trying to figure out ways to possibly put your child in that position. Sounds pretty selfish to me. There's a reason that it's against the law. Now if he's gotten help, and truly changed, ... I don't know.... can't see me doing it though.

Answer 5

You can have a child with anyone you want, be he won't be able to be around the child. You should think very seriously about this before you would become pregnant. If you do have his child, and he is around, breaking his parole, you would be contributing to his delinquency. Do you want that to happen to you when you have a child to care for. Also, consider this, if he is a sex offender, do you want him around YOUR child? Take some time off from your relationship to analyze your situation, do you really, truly want to be with a sex offender? I'm afraid your going to get hurt emotionally very badly in this relationship.

Answer 6

Why are you even considering having a child with this man,? Dont you know that a lot of these men want children of their own to share with other sexual predators?. You are supposed to love and protect your child . How are you going to do this ?

Answer 7

How do you know that this won't happen to your child? Better think long and hard on this one. I suppose he says that he didn't do it, he was framed and etc., but women.... are you out of your mind to fall for a man with a past like that. His sick need to have sexual acts with children would make my skin crawl and it is now, just thinking about it. Have you cured him or something? It isn't that easy. Has he got you brain washed sister. Damn...................... you people never stop amazing me with your questions. You better think long and hard about this. There are millions of men on this planet, why this one? Did he make you feel so wanted........please....... get a grip!

Answer 8

Just don't fall in love with a sex offender!

Why would any woman with 1/10th of a brain even consider a relationship of any kind with a pervert who gets his jollies from children??

If you're in this situation, keep in mind that the ONLY thing that this pervert is to you is a machine to produce children for his perverted sexual gratification. That you would even consider doing that makes you as SICK as he is.

Get immediate psychological help, you need it!

Answer 9

Well that is an interesting dilemma, maybe before you think of how much you are in love and want a child. Think about the child who will grow up around a predator.

Answer 10

You can. There's no law that says convicted sex offenders cannot get married or sire children. P.S.: I see that other people are saying you're making a mistake if you love a sex offender, but I would say it's your decision and you should look at what he was convicted of when making your decision. It's no secret that guys in their late teens and early 20's get convicted of sex offenses (and logged in the national registry) for having sex with a minor, even if they didn't know the girl's real age and even in cases where guys saw them with fake ID's portraying them to be 18 years or older. If your boyfriend falls into that boat, then I don't see a problem. But if he was convicted of some other type of sexual misconduct with minors, BE VERY CAREFUL.