2006-12-21 03:51:18 · 22 answers · asked by Samcode 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your dating the wrong kind of girl! Not all girls do that. The ones that want JUST your money are not focused on wanting a relationship but what they can get out of it! The ones that do not focus on money just want to be with you!
2006-12-21 03:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by September Sweetie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money can't buy you love -
It all depends on the woman and not all women are alike. You might be feeling like that's all what women want but please apply to this case by case.
A Type: Some girls are being raised by their parents to not date a bum. And this type of teaching is embedded in the minds of young girls that they go out picking their men based on his financial status. Her up bringing becomes her reality
B Type: Some women have been taken advantage of. Some have been used, abused and taken to the cleaners. And from this bad experience she might be the type who now requires her man to have his own money. (What's wrong with that)?
C Type: Some women are on a mission to find a man who will wine and dine them and serve them on a silver platter. If she's worth it, then there's nothing wrong with her expecting to be treated this way, but if she's GOLD DIGGER- be aware.
D Type: Some women may have come from a very poor background, and is determine to not be on the bottom anymore. Maybe she has seen how hard her mother had to struggle and refuses to live her life like that. So she tries to beat all odds, by picking a man who is able to provide for her. It's like going from Poor to Rich.
If you're feeling that you are being taken advantage of by a woman when it comes to money. You have the right to set your own standards. If you don't think the woman is worthy of your money then don't spend it on her. You should only be giving because you want to give. You shouldn't be feeling the pressure of having to spend your money.
In a relationship everyone must bring something to the table and everyone can't bring the same amount or the same thing as the next person.
Example: you might not have alot of money to offer her, but you have time, love, and attention to offer her instead. Each woman must decide how they feel "rich" when with their man.
Again, each woman have a different need and you need to be sure that you know what her need is and not assume that it is money, or materialist things. Find someone who is more compatiable with your style of love.
2006-12-21 05:17:02 · answer #2 · answered by Tired of being Mr. Nice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because all women want to be secure and society has fooled them into believing that in order to obtain that security the need money. But true security is not achieved through riches but through the riches of the heart. So they seek the man with that nice job, fat pockets, cool car, and or fancy home but even then they find themselves unhappy. That's because these are not the measure of security nor love but a fool's folly. Man I could go on but I will leave it at that.
2006-12-21 04:23:53 · answer #3 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of women just like a lot of men focus on money because they are so worried about their living situation or social standing that they loose sight of what is really important, and that would be the love, communication, and compatibility of you and your significant other.
Gold diggers....simply put.
2006-12-21 03:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by ceresia_blade 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
im gonna try my best not to be offended because this is one woman you are not putting in that category. im not the type to be focused on money. in my eyes money seems to be the root of all evil(if you got it like that),although i do want a man who can hold his own. there is no amount of money that could make me happy when it comes to just having it and aint nothing wrong with that.
2006-12-21 04:05:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not true, my girl spends money like it grows on trees. It's me who puts more focus on the money... trying to save as much as she spends
2006-12-21 03:53:41 · answer #6 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not true, i don't think about money in a relationship because I don't expect materialistic things from my lover. i want someone show they love me with actions, not your damn overflowing checkbooks or 50 thousand credit cards( then I feel like they are paying to have sex with me or just to be with me)
If women can't accept that and just worry about the money then they are either:
a) spoiled to the point of no return
b) in it for the money
c) want a guy to spend all his money on them and do nothing for the relationship
either way get rid of them if you run into one
2006-12-21 04:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by ezekiel's mom 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women just want to feel secure, and some are trained through their life experiences or they way they were raised that money brings them security.
2006-12-21 03:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by unknown 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
not all women are like that...my now husband, but he was my boyfriend at the time, hurt his knee really bad and couldn't work for months...so i paid for our food most of the time and we rarely went on dates and the presents he got me weren't really expensive or anything, but i didn't really mind, because i really love him. Even when his knee got better, things were the same for while, but i really love him for who he is and i don't care about how much money he has...
other women might worry b/c
A. they're gold diggers..and they just want u to spend money on them all day long...
or
B. they really like you, but they're thinking about their future w/ you and they really don't want to live paycheck to paycheck, they want to live comfortably..
2006-12-21 03:56:37 · answer #9 · answered by Vanessa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how would you show your love to a woman if you love her soo much. and if you want to make her happy? money can buy some of her happiness, her beauty and to show to her that you love her. if she wants to be happy, she could go to the movies, shopping or party out an have fun.
2006-12-21 04:00:04 · answer #10 · answered by abie_4u2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋