2006-12-21 03:42:44 · 24 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well evidently if your already dating him then you already looked past his looks because if you were only into his looks, you wouldn't date him in the first place. There must of been something else that you were attracted to which matters most anyway. If you accept who the person is then everything else will come in place. You wouldn't mind what he looks like because he makes you happy and your content with that. Looks is not everything and it can take a person but so far. What matters is who that person is and how that person makes you feel. Remember beauty is in the eye of the beholder and true beauty is skin deep. You need to love him for who he is and you will receive that in return. An outer apperance won't last forever, but inner beauty will last for an eternity!
2006-12-21 04:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend is not attractive to whom? It does not matter what other people think or what other people say is attractive. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and true beauty comes from the inside of a person. I have seen some people that were pleasing to the eye but became very ugly once they opened their mouth. Look inside of your boyfriend and love him for who he is and not for the way he looks. Looks are not everything and physical beauty fades away with time. But a true caring heart can never become ugly. They say ugly people say these things and that looks really do matter but I am an attractive women so that is just not true. Do not let him get away. Good people are hard to find!
2006-12-21 03:50:21 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Crickett 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, okay, great question. My husband is also not very attractive physically. He's really fat and has boobs and a big belly and such. He's also bald and has this weird pixie face. When we first started dating, I had a HUGE problem with his appearance, also because I was constantly comparing him to my ex (blessed with all American good looks and a lean, athletic body).
I still SEE his flaws, but somehow they don't MATTER as much as they did in the beginning. You sort of get used to it. I mean, I love him and wouldn't want to be with anybody else, but I sure wish he could be handsome and fit. It would make things a lot easier.
2006-12-21 04:11:37 · answer #3 · answered by suki's mom 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Looks are only skin deep. I know a few very attractive women who are "ugly" to me because of there personality. If he is over weight, he can go on a diet and lose weight, plastic surgery, a few other things. If you have a crappy personality and treat people bad, you will eventually become ugly to everyone.
2006-12-21 03:53:24 · answer #4 · answered by mvas800 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Close your eyes and focus on his voice or his touch. Looks aren't the whole impression. Also, I think it's possible to learn to appreciate someone's appearance. Pick out what you do like in his features and give them your attention. In time, the rest of him will seem "right". I've fallen in love with people who weren't especially beautiful before.
2006-12-21 03:58:28 · answer #5 · answered by Blenderhead 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not Everything is about looks. Obviously he likes you for who you are so you should do the same. I know how you feel my bf is not so attractive either but I realized he has a nice personality and he cares about me alot. I hope it is the same for you. Good Luck!!
2006-12-21 06:26:35 · answer #6 · answered by lilmisscheergirl1108 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
we're rocking in the same boat!! i just look past his outer appearance and look more into his inner heart. he has a great sense of humor, a great laugh, treats me wonderfully, accepted my two boys when we first started dating, etc. it's been a wonderful 3 years as of this December. try doing the same and good luck.
Mom of B & D
2006-12-21 03:47:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mom of B & D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly looks should not be everything in a relationship as long as he treats you the way you like to be treated that is all the counts. and obvisiously he is a good person because if he wasn't you wouldn't be asking this question
2006-12-21 03:54:26 · answer #8 · answered by sas_16 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about looks, If he loves you and treats you right, just love him as much as you can. Inside is what matters not on the outside.
2006-12-21 03:46:02 · answer #9 · answered by GangstaHousewife 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Focus on his other characteristics. Is he kind, caring, compassionate, honest, a great person? Focus on the inner beauty and the rest will just fall into place. Physical beauty is temporary but inner beauty is forever
2006-12-21 03:45:53 · answer #10 · answered by triste_girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋