My boyfriend of the last 6 months sent me a text message last night saying that if he aske me 2 luv him like no other, would I. If he slowed down would I move @ his speed . Can I fathm a winning spirit before it's won. He was saying to only text him before it's done and to tell the truth. Then he sent another text stating that he was a playboy and he was apologizing to all the women that he hurt as he was loosing us all, we was asking us to forgive him. I was sick and went straight to bed yesterday and didn't get his text until one this morning at which point I immediately responded because he sent me a text saying I was the only one who didn't respond and for me to leave him be because he knew my type. He wouldn't take my calls or respond to my messages so I went by his house this morning and he wouldn't let me in, but said that it wasn't about me although he knew I loved him like no other he felt I still was seeing other guys when I wasn't. He said it's about his life.
2006-12-21 03:06:44 · 12 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I felt like he was only leaving me because he said that I had stolen his heart and then destroyed it but I wasn't seeing other guys. Why was he doing this to me and he refused to talk to me on the phone or see me, he'd only send me text messages. I love him dearly and don't know how to deal with this any advice from anyone?? He still kind of made it seem like it was my fault because he said that I wasn't loving only him. What should I do and how do I deal with how after all we've been through he dumped me via text message...what's up with that?
2006-12-21 03:08:43 · update #1
To me it seems like his playing mind games. Just leave him alone and he will come back to you sooner or later or you can write him a letter if his not letting you or giving you the time of the day to talk to him, just write him an email or letter and send it to him and explain what you wanted to tell him in the letter so he will understand, and if not then o welll what can you do atleast you tried. you have done nothing wrong it him.
2006-12-21 03:13:47 · answer #1 · answered by supersteveee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to play "hard to get" so he can have you in the palm of his hand. It's working. Turn it on him and don't call him, then when he texts you don't answer (after all it seems to bother him). Give him a taste of his own medicine.
It's an old trick girl. He likes you and is trying to reel you in with reverse psychology.
2006-12-21 11:19:17 · answer #2 · answered by 2timer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're stressing over a guy who has just admitted he was seeing not only you but several other females and just wants to know which of you guys love him.....then he gets mad at you because you are the only girl that didn't "boost his ego" and text back? Yet you still go over to his house and try and get him back?
And you wonder why girls get played....
2006-12-21 11:16:54 · answer #3 · answered by www.treasuretrooper.com/186861 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he can't talk to you in person, he is a coward. Drop him and move on. You will love again. A real man that doesn't hide behind text messages.
2006-12-21 11:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by JAD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to make you feel bad to help him feel better with breaking up with you. From what I am reading he dosen't deserve you and you need the chance to find some one who will love and take care of you not just fill there needs of the moment with any women thay can find.
2006-12-21 11:12:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jody Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey hes a player!!!!! Play back .If he loves u hell find ya.He didnt want u to come in because he was w/ someone else at the time u were at the door!!!Wake up girl,If he really wants u he'll tell ya.
2006-12-21 11:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That wasn't as much of a question as it was a " Dear diary".
2006-12-21 11:12:49 · answer #7 · answered by Dr. Feelgood 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you a Playboy model? I am. I might know you or your boyfriend.
2006-12-21 11:12:09 · answer #8 · answered by Ariel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seem that he knows he doesn't want u but getting excusses and reasons 4 leavin u but he isn't sure y he is leavin ya, i think he is seriouse and doesn't want ya
sorry hon
2006-12-21 11:12:12 · answer #9 · answered by simply_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him, he's pyscho.
2006-12-21 11:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋