2006-12-21 03:00:38 · 49 answers · asked by simple 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Love is always more powerful
2006-12-21 03:03:41 · answer #1 · answered by ۞ JønaŦhan ۞ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Love Marriage
2006-12-21 05:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by Jr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never wish a loveless marriage on anyone but i have many friends that got married in an arranged marriage and they are really happy and some are happier than my friends that got married after meeting and falling in love, sometimes i think that there is more respect in a arranged marraige then in a love marriage but every case is different i met my fiance through love not a arranged marriage, but again every case is different. But love is one thing but if there is no respect in a marriage from both sides, that couple is going to have a rocky road marriage.
2006-12-23 05:50:18 · answer #3 · answered by SB33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither of the marriage types can be successful unless both partners want to make it successful. Marriage is a option to build a relationship with a given partner. If you add enough Love to the relationship it will be successful else many successful marriages are in real terms unsucessful. People are just dragging because they are either living in fear or are dump stuck and do not know what to do next. If you are planning to marry take some counselling on marriage before attempting to it, it will be worth while for you to see a happy married life.
2006-12-21 04:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of which one, both are a gamble-marriage risky unless you are 100 percent sure and nobody ever really is. But the love marriage will have benefits of knowing the person already. The arranged marriage is a big chance you will even like the person at all. Personally I say love, but I am biased as I have never been in an arranged marriage but I have been in love. lol
2006-12-21 03:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by Sarah 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First thought I would say love, but anyone I know that has an arranged marriage is very successful. They go into the relationship knowing that there may never be love and so they don't expect it. Love can falter and change and end in divorce. So I guess I would say both can be successful but an arranged marriage might lead the way.
2006-12-21 03:04:22 · answer #6 · answered by Jade121 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The most successful marriage is the one that is between two compatible persons. of course compatibility is more of a utopian concept to some of us. Marriages are based on mutual faith, trust, love and understanding. to make a marriage successful both partners have to continuously work to nurture it. Both have to adjust to the changed life.
However, in most societies where the girl moves to the family of the husband, especially in the joint family system, its the girt who has to strive more to adjust to the new setting and new people. Of course it is not fair. the new family must also make ample effort to make the new member of the family feel at home.
so whether the marriage is an arranged one or a love marraige is not so much of an issue in its success. the success depends upon to what extent the husband and wife can go to make it work and support each other.
2006-12-21 07:09:58 · answer #7 · answered by Sumit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Define successful. If you mean the rate of divorce, definitely arranged marriages last longer. The culture of arranged marriages doesn't really give wiggle room for divorce in most cases.
If you mean successful in the idea of people in love, that depends on your definition of love. You can't qualify emotions. And I'd guarantee you that half the people who get married out of "love", don't know what love is themselves.
I've known many couples who had arranged marriages where I've seen deeper love than anywhere else in the world. People knock it because it is different than what they are used to and have never seen it in real life. It can work and has worked for thousands of years.
2006-12-21 05:47:00 · answer #8 · answered by hotdoggiegirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOVE MARRIAGE!! some arrange marriages work but I would think Love marriage would be more successful
2006-12-21 04:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally perfer love marriage. Because I'm the one who have to spend the rest of my life with that person, of course I would like to know that person and know that he is my soul mate. I believe everyone has another half in the world, just need to find it. I've heard of a lot of arrange marriage is also successful. Because you learn to love that person since the traditional belief and your parents picked that person for you. I guess it's how you treat your marriage is the key, because no matter how you find your partner, if you don't cherish the marriage then it wouldn't be successful neither way. Marriage by itself its a career!
2006-12-21 03:31:28 · answer #10 · answered by Haze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take this from somebody who knows. where i used to live people arrange marriages. like every thing else they have their advantages and disadvantages. an arranged marriage mostly is based on the friendship of the two opposite parents. this people meet and their children do not need to work but then find what they have in common and then they develop love.u cud say then that the marriage is based on love whereas in love marriage u have to work to make things work. but besides love, compactibility which may become a problem in the nearby future whereas in arranged marriage the couple know for sure they have to be compactible because believe me divorce doesn't come in. hope my answer helps.
2006-12-21 03:08:12 · answer #11 · answered by crystal n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋