is there way to make woman talk honselty ??
2006-12-21 02:51:05 · 23 answers · asked by persianooo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why does it matter to you, it's not your business and she is with you now so that is all that matters.
2006-12-21 02:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by Jon O 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her really drunk, she'll tell you.
Although if she's unwilling to tell you it means that she's had quite a few (over 20 probably) You're either going to have to accept the fact that she's been with so many other guys or leave her.
Not sure why you want to know the exact number. Will you stay with her if it's 10 but will leave her if it's 11?
2006-12-21 10:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by Kim J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no known way to do this, unless she is willing. You be trusting. Then, you will ask yourself, why do I want to know? It makes no diff. I trust her with all my heart.
If you insist on wanting to know, take a look at yourself. You are not serious about her. You are just curious. May be jealous? These things don't work in a good relationship.
Just rise above it all, don't ask. That's the only way, if you care for her.
2006-12-21 10:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What your girlfriend did before she met you is not any of your business. You have no right to ask her anything about her sexual partners and if you do she has the right to not answer you. Live in the future and you will be happy by learning about others you will just obsess and feel jealous. Time to move on.
2006-12-21 10:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by Deirdre O 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
this is a tricky one because it's never truly possible to tell if you're partner is being totally honest when you ask them how many partners they've had. but women are much more likely to lie about it than men because women want to protect our ego. If they tell us a number that we think is too high we might overreact.
2006-12-21 10:54:07 · answer #5 · answered by Sid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that she is not telling you the truth about her previous relationships is because she is afraid of losing you. I think that you shouldn't put her under stress. If she does not want to tell you than you should not make her. It is her past and she is free to keep it to herself. I think that your question makes her feel that you do not trust her.
2006-12-21 10:58:07 · answer #6 · answered by dandon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she loves you, that should be enough. Don't worry about the past, unless you are insecure about the relationship. And if that's the case, it's not going to work anyway.
2006-12-21 10:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's no way for you to do it unless she herself takes this relationship seriously. Let her know you expectation of honesty in the relationship.
2006-12-21 11:01:25 · answer #8 · answered by Nas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry there are more important things to know about my lady than how many partners she has had --- i dont care --- she is with me now and the past only counts because its made her who she is
2006-12-21 10:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to open a can of worms, Are you
looking for leverage , or are you insecure..either way
she has a problem YOU..
2006-12-21 11:28:23 · answer #10 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's her business, not yours.
Why don't you tell her how many partners you've had.
She may then share the info with you ....but even if she doesn't....it's still none of your business.
2006-12-21 10:56:13 · answer #11 · answered by Patricia 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋