2006-12-21 02:47:41 · 24 answers · asked by suresh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Attempting a ladder jump, eh? Honestly, guy, I wouldn't recommend it. She thinks of you as a friend. That is, there is no chemistry, no romance, no nothing, and women won't pursue a relationship unless their feeeeelings are being stroked. If you proceed, you're setting yourself up for a disappointment.
If you decide to go ahead anyway, good luck.
2006-12-21 02:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by Steve 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
So you have fallen in love with your friend..huh? I think it is very easy to fall in love with your friend because you know each other so well. Now the problem is you have fallen in love with her and you want to let her know. I think the best way is to tell her but this may end your friendship.
2006-12-21 12:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by Aura 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont jump the gun. By telling your feelings you may lose a friend for ever if she has no feelings for you except friendship. If there is reciprocal feelings which you might find through a common friend by confiding then you have come a full circle. Be carefull though.
2006-12-21 12:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by Kushal-Know All 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends if you are willing to possibly lose her as a friend. If she doesn't feel the same it may get weird. But you cant exactly turn off your feelings either. I would go for it! You never know maybe she secretly loves you as well. You never know. I wouldn't be blunt. I would hint at it for a while and see what her reactions are. Good luck!
2006-12-21 10:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by runzwsizorz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no easy way..buit you must tell her. I found out years down the road that my best friend loved me . I had always secretly had feelings for him but thought he wouldnt be intrested so never brought it up. Now years later I still wonder ...what if. Could have been a beautiful thing.
2006-12-21 10:52:53 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing is to be honest and don't deny your feelings. If she is a true friend she will appreciate your honesty and if she doesn't feel the same you will find a way in which you both can deal with it.
2006-12-21 10:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by Nigel S 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Send her a marriage proposal,easiest way.If you very brave take her out for an expensive meal propose but have an engagement ring in your pocket.Good luck
2006-12-21 10:55:19 · answer #7 · answered by jjinbkk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her the situation. if you have been friends for a while use that and if you just got to know her use that. be like i don't want to make you feel ackward because i know we have been friends a while, or because we just started hanging out but i rally like your personality and you are great to be around. i think i like you more than a friend. then ask her how she feels about it. she may like you like that too, but was to chicken to say it, or she'll say that sh is flattered but she doesn't see you like that. it could make for a weird situation, but youwill never know how she eels unless tou tell her.
2006-12-21 10:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to tell her is to write her a romantic letter in Valentine Day. You should also send her red flowers.
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2006-12-22 04:10:06 · answer #10 · answered by Ashok 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋