myself and a male friend of mine have a few things in common.Lately whenever we see eachother we start a conversation by discussing the weather.we talk about other things but lately the weather is our conversation starter.is my friend becoming bored with me.what do you think
2006-12-21 02:46:23 · 7 answers · asked by debra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you like him get more of a conversation or he will get bored.. just make a move
2006-12-21 02:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to pay attention to his disposition in general, & that way it's easy to tell whether or not he's bored. For example, if he's always smiling (at you) when he's speaking then I would think it to be his shy way of flirting. The same thing happens to me. This
guy gave my friend the impression that he likes me; so when I went over to talk to him for the first time something really funny happened that we were laughing about. So know every time he sees me he brings that up. You do have to break the ice though, in a subtle way & start talking about something else, such as asking him what he likes to do, or what his weekend plans are- stuff like that- because talking about the same thing can only stay interesting for so long. Ask him about anything else- You don't have to feel like you're being nosy or anything.
2006-12-21 10:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by darkshadows9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's clear that you are both feeling very nervous so your brain gets all muddled when you meet. It doesnt necessarily mean that he's getting bored with you, just that he feels the same way you are feeling when you meet. But talking about the weather all the time may get a bit monotonous. Why not try asking him about how his day is going or talk about what you have in common, is it music, movies? whatever it is just try starting a conversation about it. And most importantly,Relax and enjoy the chat!!!
2006-12-21 10:55:12 · answer #3 · answered by Bloo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend could be feeling a little tounge tied. Seems there may be that gap because they are kinda hot for you. Watch body language. Maybe you should throw things off with somethings else like a tv show or awesome tune you just heard.
2006-12-21 10:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've just break the ice now make it a variety ,whenever he talks to you do the initiative,talk about something personal a bit like ask him if he has a girlfriend,or does he currently
has a crush on someone,just be proactive
2006-12-21 10:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i think you both wanna talk but have no subject and yes after sometimes it will extremely be boring so find out something before you bore him away...
2006-12-21 10:53:42 · answer #6 · answered by CherOkeeGurL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weather is fun for only so long.
2006-12-21 10:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by Win 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋