Walking down the aisle???Pregnant???

Question

Anyone ever done this?I am two weeks pregnant and engaged and not told family yet only my fiance.He wants to move the wedding day up March because of this is this a bad idea?I kind of get the feeling he is embarrassed of the situation.?He seems to be worried hat people will think particularly family members.

sorry that too March i typed to fast.

I was given a blood test after passing out at work thats how i found out i was pregnant.And my fiance an i were engaged in september before i got pregnant.

Answer 1

me and my husband got engaged February 2001. In may of 2001 I found out I was pregnant. We moved up our wedding date from April 2002 to Auguat 2001. I was showing a little but I am glad that I was married befor my son Richard was born. We ended up having a smaller wedding too because we were more focused on our new arrival. His family welcomed me. It was only a few people from his church that shuned us. But as long as you love each other and support each other what every one else thinks dosen't matter.

Answer 2

people do it all the time.. my mom got married to my dad when she was pregnant with me (they were married 7 years my dad was an ***) and then she married my step dad while she was pregnant with my baby brother.. who cares what people think you were at least engaged and planning a wedding before you got pregnant.. and it is YOUR big day don't let what other people may or may not think ruin your big day and if you want to move up the date then do it but not for the wrong reasons do it because you want to! my only concern with getting married while pregnant is finding the perfect dress that looks great .. I'm sure there are some beautiful wedding dresses you can wear while pregnant but your selection will be a lot less and if you do move up the date you might be able to fit into more dresses .. just a thought!! good luck and remember it is YOUR and your fiance's special day dont worry about what people may say!! it's all about you two and the love you have for eachother

Answer 3

I was just discussing this with a young lady for her wedding. Seems she's just found out she's pregnant and is getting married immediately, trying to pull everything together quickly.

By March you might be beginning to show that you are pregnant, so if your fiance is trying to sneak it in....well, you know.
And people know how to add. Even those you don't tell will know you were pregnant during your wedding, once the baby is here.

You & your fiance need to tell both sets of parents asap.

There are many who have walked the aisle carrying a child. And some wait until after the baby is born to marry.This is a decision that you & your fiance will have to make.

Answer 4

first off.. Congrats on both the engagement & the baby.!!!

If you were already engaged before you were pregnate, then there is no reason for any one to assume that you are only getting married because of the baby. Besides, even if it does bother people, it will still make those same people think something when you have the baby less than 9 months after you got married. people are funky like that for some reason.
There is no really reason for you to get married any sooner than you were planning on. Plus, it is true, they are making maternity wedding dresses now, if you are still pregnate & showing by them time of your wedding.
Remember this is both you & his decision, if you don't want to get married in march, and he doesn't want to wait, then maybe you can compromise and marry later in the year.

Answer 5

since you have been engaged for 3mo or so...it shouldn't matter if you are pregnant or not! tell the family the great news! then explain to them that you really want a traditional dress and not a maternity dress, so you are moving the date up. i would say only tell the grandparents and ask them to keep it secret till after the wedding(unless they are the ones he is concerned about)

just the fact that you were engaged BEFORE finding out you were pregnant is what makes the difference

Answer 6

I had 2 friends that got married when they were pregnant. Who cares what people think. If you want to move up the wedding do it. At the reception you and him make the announcement that you guys are having a baby.

Answer 7

I moved my wedding up for the same reason - not to hide the pregnancy - really, no one is going to believe it just came 3 months early, lol. But, because I wanted to get it done before I was to big and huge to enjoy my wedding and so that I had plenty of time after the wedding to prepare for the baby. I recommend either moving it up, or waiting till after - and you will find that it is a lot harder to get it done after, lol.

Answer 8

Okay so your going to be 6 months pregnant when you walk down the aisle. Don't do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Wait until you give birth and then you can plan the wedding. I'm sure everyone will be happy to know that you are having a baby, but on the other hand they will be upset that you did not get married first.

Unless you would like to move the wedding up to Christmas or in the middle of January??

Answer 9

Well you and he need to decide this yourselves, based on your values and preferences.

Although I have to also share the story of two friends of mine who moved up their wedding date due to a surprise pregnancy... She miscarried the baby 3 weeks after the wedding-- I think she was 5 months along. And that was the only reason they got married so soon.

So not to scare you, but just to set you thinking about your priorities and all, wther you want to stay with your current plan or move it up.

Answer 10

My aunt got married when she was 7 mo pregnant. It was kind of awkward, cause everyone knew my uncle was just marrying her because of the baby. I think if you two were engaged already then it won't be so awkward, but might want to move the date up so the dress still fits!