i never wanted her but her stupid mother died and she came to live with me, she is 13 and she really disturbs me cause i love bringing girls and havin fun, all she does is brings C from school all the time and even when spanking her with my belt she always brings the same low grade. whats the best way to make this stupid small ***** be a bit smarter so she doenst disturb my time?>
2006-12-21 02:09:35 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
I am really hoping that this question is a joke, because if you are treating her the way you say don't expect her grades or attitude to improve anytime soon. Sounds like someone else needs to be raising her instead of you.
2006-12-21 02:11:55 · answer #1 · answered by Garrett's Mommy 4 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Like the other answers, I think you need some serious help. Obviously you have no idea how to parent effectively. Just because you fathered a child biologically doesn't make you a "father."
Not only do I feel sorry for your child, but for you. Hitting her is abusive and will not achieve the effect you desire. Children need love, patience, attention and the feeling they're cared about. You, it seems, have thoughts only for yourself and your childish fun.
If there's anyone in your family with more brains than you who can love and care for your daughter, then let your daughter live with them.
Then you can go on living your selfish life and not hurt anybody but yourself.
2006-12-21 02:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by 60s Chick 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The only one who is stupid is you. Her mother died (Yes just to make your life hell!!!) and she has NO ONE to help her through the most difficult time of her life. You have no right to spank this girl, why did you take her in when you are not capable. She would be better of going to a foster family than having you ruin her life and you do not deserve the right to be a father.
2006-12-21 06:53:41 · answer #3 · answered by Weiners and Beans 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need ot give her to someone who will love her and guide her in the right direction. You cannot spank her it wont work. She is going through hell just as you are just a diffrent kind. And hers is worse. Do whast best for her and let her go to someone who will love her. Do you think you are doing anyone a favor by just keeping her and telling her she is stupid. There are lots of familys out there that will love her and help her with her mothers death. How sad............
2006-12-21 03:08:12 · answer #4 · answered by curlygirl123 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow! and you call yourself a father.....I don't think so....what I see in your words is a man who is inconvenienced by his daughter and very self-centered! a man (and I use that term loosely) that is physically abusing his daughter as well as mentally abusing her. did you ever consider that you are the cause of her, as you put them, "low grades".... that by putting her down and calling her stupid you are causing her low esteem and low self-worth and that maybe she is to the point of not caring.
being a father is more than biological....it is loving your child no matter what...even when they don't meet "your" standards. it is being there to encourage them and praise them for the right decisions they make and correcting them when they make a mistake......it is unconditional. all it takes is a loving heart, patience and a willingness to make her life the best that you can, and open communication between you both. you might be frustrated right now and in your mind you aren't ready to be a dad, but guess what you are...now it is time for you to grow up and step up to the plate and be the best dad you can be....
2006-12-21 02:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by julie's_GSD_kirby 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, number one, you need to change your screen name because cool dad is by far from what you are by the sounds of it.
I think you are cold, bitter and hateful - where do you get of talking like that about someone.
You shouldn't be a dad, talking like that about someone who died is disgusting.
I hope this is a joke for the sake of an innocent 13 year old.
You need to be reported sicko!
2006-12-21 02:29:30 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats the most horrible thing for a father to say about his child you really need give to your mother or anybody that can offer this child real love cause are not the one to be giving it to her it is sad the wat men do there kids these day I hope you get yourself and your daughter some help because with a father like you i would prolly run away or tell DSS on you you a@#whole
2006-12-21 02:21:00 · answer #7 · answered by just_gethere 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can't tell if your just screwing around on here to see what kinda answers you get but it's really not the thing to joke about.
If your not joking take her to social services so she can get the love and care she deserves. Your an *** and you need to go through school again so it seems. You'd probably get a hell of alot worse than a C in english. C's are effin' good. Dipshit.....
2006-12-21 02:19:28 · answer #8 · answered by Jenny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sicko. This is your child. If this is for real, I hope you lose custody of that child and she gets a real home. LIke another poster said, you're a dumb, selfish wanker and you have to be pissing into the wind. You aren't fit to be a parent. I hope like heck your kid is smart enough to call child protective services or find an adult she can trust. I figure she must be if she's surviving under your roof and passing her schoolwork.
2006-12-21 07:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by keyz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay, WHAT KND OF FATHER ARE YOU!!!!!!! well if you didn't want her, you should thought about that before you stuck it in with out protection. and she probley thinks you are a was of time and as soon as she is old enogh to move out, guess what she will be so far gone and you will never see her again. About the4 Cs thing she is just a human being, she more than likely distracted be you and your so called girls bumping and grading around and she can't study!!
2006-12-21 02:36:24 · answer #10 · answered by moodog_love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋