stress and frustration about my gf?

Question

i love my girlfriend so much. But she is always skeptical about my love to her. She always find troubles. it really drives me crazy.
is there any suggestion?

Answer 1

Girls are very insecure people. I know it's annoying, I know it's frustrating...but that is the way it is. The only thing that you can do is keep telling her, over and over...and not only just saying "I lovev you" but "You look great today." "Is that a new shirt? I really like it" "You know I would do anything for you right?" "I just wanted you to know I have been thinking about you all day".....etc. THEN you also have to TREAT her like she matters...don't gawk over other girls, respect her, do stupid little things for her that you know mean something to her, ALWAYS hold her hand in public or but your hand on her back or something...just so that she knows that you want everyone to know thtat she is YOURS....Also, no matter how frustrating it get's, if she questions your commitment or love, don't get mad, keep reasuring her, and maybe after you do that ask her what it is that makes her doubt you so that you can work on it and make sure that she knows how important she is to y ou....I know this is all alot of work, but hopefully she will come to the point where she finally isn't skeptical anymorer, and if you really love her, you will keep trying until she does! Good luck! I wish y ou the best!

Answer 2

It sounds like your gf has some insecurity issues. Most people do, but it can be dertrimental to a relationship when one partner is constantly doubting the affection of the other or if one partner is constantly having to reaffirm his/her love to convince the other. I've been in a situation like this before. The best thing to do, in my opinion, is talk to your girlfriend openly, honestly, and tactfully about her insecurities and how you feel it is affecting your relationship. Even better, if she is willing, try couples counseling. It can be very helpful because it gives you an objective viewpoint and helps you to understand how your feelings are affacting your thinking and interactions. Good luck! I hope things work out for you.

Answer 3

Last time I checked, I was woman, and had similar insecurity issues. I had been cheated on in 2 previous relationships and now hesitate to beleive that any one can TRULY LOVE ME. They all seem to change their minds when some younger booty comes along, right? WRONG.

I know it devastates my Husband when I ask him if he really does love me. Deep inside, I know he does, but there is always that niggling in the back of my mind that maybe he, too, may leave me when someone better comes along.

Have your GF try individual counselling and eventually couple's therapy. If this relationship means this much to you, this is the right thing to do.

She needs to discover the deep down reasons for distrust and disbelief in you (and men in general), and neither of you have the tools to do that on your own.

Good Luck and I wish you both happiness in the future.

Answer 4

You are probably doing something that makes her feel that way. analyze your self first then ask her why do she feels this way and what have you done to make her feel that way. men as a rule have a hard time talking seriously about there emotions to females.
talking is always the best way to handle a problem. once you talk it out then take steps on improving what ever it is that makes her feel the way she do.
chances there are good reasons for her finding the trouble . ask her to tell you step by step why she is acting the way she do and why is she questioning your action.
remember talking out things always help.

women in general have various problems it could be hormonal , pms , diet, money, her surroundings, etc.
talk to her about how she is feeling ask her questions like has a past relationship been bad or what.

look at her family situation , is her mother or sister the same way?
it is always a reason for a reaction either bad or good. When you find the reason you will find the answer.

good luck

Answer 5

She sounds insecure...Not with you , but with herself. You need to ask yourself, do I really want to deal with this? My wife is the same way and it is very frustrating...7 years now...